Wiseman2 Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 45 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: Also the night got crazier but I don’t want to give to much info out. Ok. The thing to do is put it all behind you knowing you are wiser about creeps and guys who say stuff and do stuff to have sex. Live and learn. That's what dating and life experience is all about.
Author Emma7897 Posted December 7, 2021 Author Posted December 7, 2021 32 minutes ago, Alpaca said: Crazy in what sense. Did he fling potatoes at you from across the table? No! It just took a turn
Pumpernickel Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 35 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: No! It just took a turn Towards?
Author Emma7897 Posted December 7, 2021 Author Posted December 7, 2021 27 minutes ago, Pumpernickel said: Towards? If I say it I feel like he will know it’s me
Author Emma7897 Posted December 7, 2021 Author Posted December 7, 2021 Just now, Emma7897 said: If I say it I feel like he will know it’s me Or find this site
Girl Fade Away Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 (edited) 22 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: If I say it I feel like he will know it’s me Emma, IF he is reading this site and this thread, he already knows it's you. I mean, how many men ask their dates if they get compliments, the woman responds "not really," he touches her face and thigh, tells her "don't be shy," looks at her angry and cuts the date short? And they're both in their early 20s? May as well spill the beans so we can help you, or try to. It's up to you, I understand your need for privacy too though. Edited December 7, 2021 by Girl Fade Away 1
Author Emma7897 Posted December 7, 2021 Author Posted December 7, 2021 12 minutes ago, Girl Fade Away said: Emma, IF he is reading this site and this thread, he already knows it's you. I mean, how many men ask their dates if they get compliments, the woman responds "not really," he touches her face and thigh, tells her "don't be shy," looks at her angry and cuts the date short? And they're both in their early 20s? May as well spill the beans so we can help you, or try to. It's up to you, I understand your need for privacy too though. Will he find this site though ?
AngryGromit Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 8:44 PM, Emma7897 said: We were talking for awhile before we met. He actually cut the date short which I didn’t mind because idk …. He was rubbing my thigh a lot. On the first date? You might like to show / tell someone they are really interested in you, but rubbing a girls thigh isn't exactly first date behavior unless you were hot and heavy into him too. 1
Wiseman2 Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 6 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: Will he find this site though ? It doesn't matter. You do not have to reveal anything that makes it uncomfortable. It's not about that. Most of all you blocked him so why are you still worried about all this?
Alpacalia Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Emma7897 said: No! It just took a turn Okay. Well, from the sounds of it, it doesn't sound good. So maybe you have a close friend or family member that you can confide in if you're not comfortable with disclosing the details. Edited December 7, 2021 by Alpaca
Author Emma7897 Posted December 7, 2021 Author Posted December 7, 2021 36 minutes ago, Alpaca said: Okay. Well, from the sounds of it, it doesn't sound good. So maybe you have a close friend or family member that you can confide in if you're not comfortable with disclosing the details. If you deactivate your account will your threads delete?
Wiseman2 Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 Just now, Emma7897 said: If you deactivate your account will your threads delete? You need to use the "contact us" feature and ask to lock your thread.
Author Emma7897 Posted December 7, 2021 Author Posted December 7, 2021 2 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: You need to use the "contact us" feature and ask to lock your thread. If you lock your thread will people still be able to find it ?
stillafool Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 5 hours ago, Emma7897 said: Dang I didn’t know people could just forget about someone that fast after doing all that chasing. The thing is you don't know who all he is chasing.
Author Emma7897 Posted December 7, 2021 Author Posted December 7, 2021 3 minutes ago, stillafool said: The thing is you don't know who all he is chasing. Your right….. never looked at it like that
Girl Fade Away Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 7 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: If you deactivate your account will your threads delete? Emma, if you want this thread deleted, you can send a message to the moderators and ask them to delete it for privacy reasons. I don't know what type of device you post on but on my computer there is an icon on top that reads "more" click on that and scroll down to "message our moderators." Click on it and type your message. Good luck to you and wish you the happiest of holidays! 1
Alpacalia Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 9 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: If you deactivate your account will your threads delete? I'm not sure. Contact the moderators directly if you need to deactivate your account.
Eshika Khanna Posted December 17, 2021 Posted December 17, 2021 I feel this was the compliment for you :))
stillafool Posted December 17, 2021 Posted December 17, 2021 On 12/7/2021 at 3:28 PM, Emma7897 said: Will he find this site though ? No! unless he's searching for "Weird First Date That I Ended Early". If he ended the date early he doesn't care enough to google about it. 1
AngryGromit Posted December 18, 2021 Posted December 18, 2021 On 12/17/2021 at 11:06 AM, stillafool said: No! unless he's searching for "Weird First Date That I Ended Early". If he ended the date early he doesn't care enough to google about it. I googled that exact topic, nothing came up for this site. Your being paranoid if you think someone can cyber stalk you based on what you write on one site. the internet is a really big place. i wager you can upload a home made porno video of yourself and none of you family or friends would stumble across it, not that I'm recommend you do that, but the chances are slim that anyone you know will stumble across anything you post by chance. 1
Author Emma7897 Posted December 30, 2021 Author Posted December 30, 2021 (edited) I was hanging out with this guy , and he kept giving me this serious intense stare? Almost like he was upset , it was a deep stare. Then he slightly rubbed his fingers across my face. people tell me stares are a dead give away ? Does a mans stare mean anything? Edited December 30, 2021 by Emma7897
stillafool Posted December 30, 2021 Posted December 30, 2021 It can mean a lot of things Emily. He could be staring because he thinks you're pretty and wants to get to know you. He could be staring as a way to excite you especially if he is good looking and has swag. Some men play games with their stares because they know it can unsettle some women. Your guy stared at you, he liked you, had sex with you, told you it was a mistake and offered friendship. I don't think he is hiding his feelings but said what he meant. If he wanted to be with you he never would have told you what he did.
Author Emma7897 Posted December 30, 2021 Author Posted December 30, 2021 12 minutes ago, stillafool said: It can mean a lot of things Emily. He could be staring because he thinks you're pretty and wants to get to know you. He could be staring as a way to excite you especially if he is good looking and has swag. Some men play games with their stares because they know it can unsettle some women. Your guy stared at you, he liked you, had sex with you, told you it was a mistake and offered friendship. I don't think he is hiding his feelings but said what he meant. If he wanted to be with you he never would have told you what he did. Huh ? I never had sex with him lol !!! He never offered friendship…. I’m sooo confused we just hung out that was it ! Maybe you have me confused with someone else ???
stillafool Posted December 30, 2021 Posted December 30, 2021 (edited) 39 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: Huh ? I never had sex with him lol !!! He never offered friendship…. I’m sooo confused we just hung out that was it ! Maybe you have me confused with someone else ??? Oh, I'm so sorry I had you confused with Emilylou. Don't be confused by my mistake. Edited December 30, 2021 by stillafool
stillafool Posted December 30, 2021 Posted December 30, 2021 (edited) Quote It can mean a lot of things Emma. He could be staring because he thinks you're pretty and wants to get to know you. He could be staring as a way to excite you especially if he is good looking and has swag. Some men play games with their stares because they know it can unsettle some women. This part still stands Emma. Sorry again for the mix up. Edited December 30, 2021 by stillafool 1
Recommended Posts