Wiseman2 Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 6 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: I also told him I was moving soon and he was like just cause your moving the communication doesn’t have to stop. So you did not delete and bock him?
Author Emma7897 Posted December 5, 2021 Author Posted December 5, 2021 1 minute ago, Wiseman2 said: So you did not delete and bock him? He told me that in public when I was with him yes he’s blocked
Alpacalia Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 3 hours ago, Emma7897 said: so then why was he rubbing my thigh tho whole way back while driving. If someone isn’t attracted to you wouldn’t they not touch you ? So it appears that you began this thread to determine whether or not he was attracted to you. At least, that's what the comment above suggests.
stillafool Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 3 hours ago, Emma7897 said: This guy was chasing me for 2 years before I met up with him. I just wanted to give him a chance and it was a flop. What is your idea of chasing? Was he asking you out on dates for 2 years and you rejected them? And even though you gave him a chance and it was a "flop" that's okay not every date will be a success. That's why people date to find others who are compatible with them.
Author Emma7897 Posted December 6, 2021 Author Posted December 6, 2021 26 minutes ago, stillafool said: What is your idea of chasing? Was he asking you out on dates for 2 years and you rejected them? And even though you gave him a chance and it was a "flop" that's okay not every date will be a success. That's why people date to find others who are compatible with them. Yes he was asking to hang for a while. I would reject him and he would continue to talk to me.
stillafool Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 7 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: Yes he was asking to hang for a while. Asking to hang out is not exactly dating especially if you're just at each other's place and please don't blame it on Covid. Dating is him picking you up and taking you somewhere, planning the evening for you two.
Alpacalia Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) I think she just means that he's been "chasing" her for two years, she rejects him, but still wants to know that he's attracted to her. If that's the case, I wouldn't plan a date with you either, OP. Edited December 6, 2021 by Alpaca 1 1
stillafool Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 3 hours ago, Emma7897 said: He told me that in public when I was with him yes he’s blocked So you were with him and then blocked him? If he's blocked and you have no interest why all this talk about him on a forum?
salparadise Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) 27 minutes ago, Alpaca said: If that's the case, I wouldn't plan a date with you either, OP. Finally! I was wondering how long it would take before he got labeled a pervert/criminal. He was attracted physically and tried and tried to get a date. When the date finally happens she's looking at her phone and won't talk. The guy had enough sense to cut it short and next her. 20 minutes ago, stillafool said: If he's blocked and you have no interest why all this talk about him on a forum? She wants to know what it means when he asked, do you get a lot of compliments. What' that saying about fries and a happy meal? Edited December 6, 2021 by salparadise 2
Author Emma7897 Posted December 6, 2021 Author Posted December 6, 2021 11 minutes ago, salparadise said: Finally! I was wondering how long it would take before he got labeled a pervert/criminal. He was attracted physically and tried and tried to get a date. When the date finally happens she's looking at her phone and won't talk. The guy had enough sense to cut it short and next her. She wants to know what it means when he asked, do you get a lot of compliments. What' that saying about the number of fries in a happy meal? I was looking at my phone because he was just staring at me and not talking I was facing him I would look down at my phone and catch staring at me in my eyes plus he was on his phone to !
Alvi Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) Emma, forget about this person. From what you've wrote here, he is hardly what I would call a prize. Who knows why he did what he did. None of us can get inside his head. Point is, he made you feel uncomfortable. That's more than enough for you to never want to see him again. It's not going to be very productive for you to overanalyze his actions. Please stop thinking about what you did wrong. Not many first dates results into a relationship in any case. Move on. Edited December 6, 2021 by Alvi 1
spiderowl Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) 11 hours ago, Emma7897 said: when he had to leave he kept asking me are you upset that I have to go or are you mad that I have to go . He said he had to help a friend. He was probably married and that’s why he had to leave and why he kept blocking and unblocking you before. People don’t make dates in order to leave early. He was obviously attracted to you. If you weren’t doing anything rude, like ignoring him and playing on your phone, then it doesn’t make sense for him to leave like that then block you. If he was married, he might be worried in case you got clingy and blew up his phone. Edited December 6, 2021 by spiderowl
Author Emma7897 Posted December 6, 2021 Author Posted December 6, 2021 2 minutes ago, spiderowl said: He was probably married and that’s why he had to leave and why he kept blocking and unblocking you before. He’s not married where both in are early 20s trust me he’s not he’s a young skater dude now a girlfriend maybe ????? He would block me cause I wouldn’t answer back fast or I would ignore his text.
Author Emma7897 Posted December 6, 2021 Author Posted December 6, 2021 28 minutes ago, spiderowl said: He was probably married and that’s why he had to leave and why he kept blocking and unblocking you before. People don’t make dates in order to leave early. He was obviously attracted to you. If you weren’t doing anything rude, like ignoring him and playing on your phone, then it doesn’t make sense for him to leave like that then block you. If he was married, he might be worried in case you got clingy and blew up his phone. And he didn’t block me I blocked him. I blocked him because I didn’t feel in chemistry plus he didn’t reach out so after day 2 I blocked him .
mortensorchid Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 7:54 PM, Girl Fade Away said: I think it was his way of letting you know he thinks you're really pretty.... I agree.
stillafool Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) 13 hours ago, Emma7897 said: I was looking at my phone because he was just staring at me and not talking I was facing him I would look down at my phone and catch staring at me in my eyes plus he was on his phone to ! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Edited December 6, 2021 by stillafool
stillafool Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 12 hours ago, Alvi said: Emma, forget about this person. From what you've wrote here, he is hardly what I would call a prize. Who knows why he did what he did. None of us can get inside his head. Point is, he made you feel uncomfortable. That's more than enough for you to never want to see him again. It's not going to be very productive for you to overanalyze his actions. Please stop thinking about what you did wrong. Not many first dates results into a relationship in any case. Move on. The reason to not see him again is because she never liked him in the first place. She was throwing him a crumb by going out with him. I don't even know why this thread exists. 1
Author Emma7897 Posted December 6, 2021 Author Posted December 6, 2021 35 minutes ago, stillafool said: The reason to not see him again is because she never liked him in the first place. She was throwing him a crumb by going out with him. I don't even know why this thread exists. Obviously I did like him. I wouldn’t be making this thread if I didn’t feel something.
spiderowl Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, stillafool said: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well one thing to learn from this is that it is rude for you or him to use your phone when meeting a friend or a date. If someone has gone to the trouble of meeting you in person, then they deserve your attention. It is also rude not to reply to a friend within a reasonable amount of time - say within four hours - unless you are busy, working, sleeping, or do not want any contact with them. I don’t know how long it took you to reply to his interested messages but if it was more than a day then he was wise not to stay in touch. Edited December 6, 2021 by spiderowl 1
Alpacalia Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) 48 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: Obviously I did like him. I wouldn’t be making this thread if I didn’t feel something. Not really. Then why did you keep blowing him off for two years every time he asked you out? The tone of your questions has seemed more to be "is he attracted to me" and "does he find me pretty." Edited December 6, 2021 by Alpaca 1
stillafool Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 1 hour ago, Emma7897 said: Obviously I did like him. I wouldn’t be making this thread if I didn’t feel something. 14 hours ago, Emma7897 said: I blocked him because I didn’t feel in chemistry 16 hours ago, Emma7897 said: Yes he was asking to hang for a while. I would reject him and he would continue to talk to me. 20 hours ago, Emma7897 said: This guy was chasing me for 2 years before I met up with him. I just wanted to give him a chance and it was a flop. 20 hours ago, Emma7897 said: I wasn’t feeling a spark either. 20 hours ago, Emma7897 said: I wanted to just meet him cause I felt bad for never doing it so I did and I got that. Oh yeah, it's clear from your posts that you definitely liked this guy. You liked any attention you were getting and now that he no longer cares you make a thread. Okay.
stillafool Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 44 minutes ago, Alpaca said: Not really. Then why did you keep blowing him off for two years every time he asked you out? The tone of your questions has seemed more to be "is he attracted to me" and "does he find me pretty." I agree - seeking validation is what she's doing. 1 1
JRabbit Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 Being on your phone on a date is rude. Period. Why be there if youre just going to be on your phone?? I think he thought you would be more outgoing, and he lost interest when you couldn't carry a conversation and resorted to looking at your phone. He was bored. 2
Author Emma7897 Posted December 6, 2021 Author Posted December 6, 2021 14 minutes ago, JRabbit said: Being on your phone on a date is rude. Period. Why be there if youre just going to be on your phone?? I think he thought you would be more outgoing, and he lost interest when you couldn't carry a conversation and resorted to looking at your phone. He was bored. Nah …. I was starting most of the conversations while he was just staring at me asking me why I was shy ! ????? We were on his phone laughing looking at videos for a min. He was also looking at me very rude like he had this mean stare.
Author Emma7897 Posted December 6, 2021 Author Posted December 6, 2021 4 hours ago, stillafool said: I agree - seeking validation is what she's doing. I’m not ! I’ve just never had a guy ask me that question. I’ve been on plenty of dates guys just usually tell me I’m beautiful not ask me if I get a lot of compliments then tell me I should be more confident….
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