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Fast and furious or slow and steady?


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Anything is possible BUT if you gather statistics on the % of fast & heavy that lasted versus slow and steady....I will risk a wild guess that the slow and steady has a higher rate of success. I mean just look at the amount of stories we have here starting fast & heavy that die under 3 months. We don't have that many horror stories on couples that took their time. 

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HL

Drove to Vegas first date and got hitched , love it , good for them.

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2 hours ago, chillii said:

HL

Drove to Vegas first date and got hitched , love it , good for them.

Yah, I know a couple who met while on vacay in Hawaii, 4 DAYS later they married on the beach, they are still happily married, it's been like 6 years.   Last I talked to her, he is still the absolute love of her life. 

Sometimes, you meet someone and just "know" but it IS a risk, sometimes that risk pays off, sometimes not. 

I think there is also such a thing as being "too cautious" where you overthink your way out of anything happening at all...  versus simply letting it all happen naturally and going for it.  I see that happening quite a bit. 

 

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Yeah, no.

I would not marry someone I knew for a mere 24 hours.

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