Oscarboy21 Posted December 1, 2021 Posted December 1, 2021 (edited) My boyfriend told me he deleted both his bumble profile and app after we agreed we’d both do so. It turns out my friend saw him on it while she was scrolling for herself. His profile was showing him in various locations. I asked him about it and he said he forgot he had it on his iPad and was shocked his profile wasn’t deleted. Thoughts? Edited December 1, 2021 by Oscarboy21
glows Posted December 1, 2021 Posted December 1, 2021 That you suspect he's lying is more unnerving. Does he have a history of lying to you? If no and you just started dating, I'd be likely to take someone's word for it. The kind of men I'm into aren't usually on dating apps in the first place and there is no way I'd stick around with someone's integrity I question overall.
Wiseman2 Posted December 1, 2021 Posted December 1, 2021 1 hour ago, Oscarboy21 said: My boyfriend told me he deleted both his bumble profile and app after we agreed we’d both do so. I asked him about it and he said he forgot he had it on his iPad and was shocked his profile wasn’t deleted. How long have you been dating? Do you mean you had the exclusive conversation once intimacy began? Good you spoke up. Now he is aware you're aware. Just go back to dating others and level the field. "Deleting profiles together" is actually nonsense because it doesn't mean anything. Either you both agree to focus on, see and have sex only with each other...or not. It's that simple.
Author Oscarboy21 Posted December 1, 2021 Author Posted December 1, 2021 (edited) I started getting suspicious when his communication to me changed… it waned from what it had been earlier on. We were together 6 months and recently broke up over said communication issues. During our breakup evening he told me he feels our ‘like levels’ were off. He said he never got butterflies with me. and that I like him more. I thanked him for at least informing me of that as neither one of us needed more time wasted. He then… proceeds to hug me… kiss me and try to have sex. He claims how we have such great sex. sorry if TMI. Other red flags showed up earlier in relationship like his use of phone, told me he had to go on two week military trip with no contact yet i saw him on social media (FB and IG). When he came back he was acting apathetic towards me. Anyway thank you this helps to type it out! But really do people load Bumble to their ipads and travel around with them on all the time? hmm Edited December 1, 2021 by Oscarboy21
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