clhootie Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 Does anyone else have a problem with people they are dating having ads on personal sites? My ex-boyfriend and I broke up after 9 months because he suddenly put personal ads all over the web. The acted like nothing we different until I was told (by a friend) they had seen his ads out there. I felt so foolish. I don't understand what the hell. He acted like I was overreacting. Then another man and I started im'ing. Before I even started talking with him I check out all the personal sites and he was not out there. Now after a week, he is on all the same sites as the ex. What the hell is going on?? Am I the only one who sees a problem with this? I feel like if you are with someone you should focus on the relationship and if it doesn't work out you end it. I don't understand how it is ok to be in a relationship while looking for another women to replace the g/f with. Am I missing something?
Tangerina Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 That sucks!! When my ex told me he "needed space" he was really vague about whether we were really breaking up or not, and then a few weeks later he said he made a profile on myspace, which isn't a dating site, but I went and checked it out but his profile said Status:single, here for: Dating, Friends and I was like WTF!!! That was NOT COOL, I understand how you feel..... The story has a happy ending tho, YAY! I made a profile too, out of spite cuz I thought maybe he would see it and I would say I am single, etc.... well, lots of people contacted me or whatever, but I didn't try to date anyone or anything, just made a few non-romantic chatfriends.... but about a month later I met a boy from my college on there who was in the same classes as me and we decided to hang out and the rest is history... so my stupid ex's personal ad thing led me to a sweet boy who treats me about 10.5 times nicer.....
SuperMonk Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 Does anyone else have a problem with people they are dating having ads on personal sites? My ex-boyfriend and I broke up after 9 months because he suddenly put personal ads all over the web. The acted like nothing we different until I was told (by a friend) they had seen his ads out there. I felt so foolish. I don't understand what the hell. He acted like I was overreacting. Then another man and I started im'ing. Before I even started talking with him I check out all the personal sites and he was not out there. Now after a week, he is on all the same sites as the ex. What the hell is going on?? Am I the only one who sees a problem with this? I feel like if you are with someone you should focus on the relationship and if it doesn't work out you end it. I don't understand how it is ok to be in a relationship while looking for another women to replace the g/f with. Am I missing something? Girls do this too, that's how people are. Oh, women always know if a guy is taken or not and you women know when a guy is interested or not. they don't mind stealing them away from their sisters, mothers, or even their best friends. Just the truth, or would you prefer a sugar coated response by a woman who will give you half truths.
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