Allupinnit Posted November 29, 2021 Posted November 29, 2021 I personally don't know any women who like receiving these from complete strangers. 1
Girl Fade Away Posted November 29, 2021 Posted November 29, 2021 (edited) 35 minutes ago, Allupinnit said: I personally don't know any women who like receiving these from complete strangers. I know a few and have read posts from men saying that once they started uploading shirtless pics to their profile, their messages increased significantly. So some like, some don't. Probably the same women who send half nude bikini shots (or full nudes) to random men would like assuming the man had a great physique and had something to show off!! lol Edited November 29, 2021 by Girl Fade Away
Alpacalia Posted November 29, 2021 Posted November 29, 2021 @CalipsoRoseWhat do you want your involvement with this individual to be? This isn't a shirtless pic. It's a full body picture of a man covering his genitals. It doesn't make him gross or yucky. If you're looking to date seriously, I don't think he's your guy. 1
Author CalipsoRose Posted November 29, 2021 Author Posted November 29, 2021 (edited) To clarify, the picture showed the side of his bootie, so it wasn't just a shirtless pic of him with a towel around his waist - it was him using the towel to only cover his member and everything else was visible. I wasn't offended by it, honestly I dont know how to feel about it. Neither good nor bad. Just, "Huh. Interesting." He's the only guy I would want to date right now IF I were in the mood to actually date anyone. But yeah I'm worried it means he just wants casual. Edited November 30, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language
glows Posted November 29, 2021 Posted November 29, 2021 (edited) [ ] Usually individuals will ask if such pictures are welcome but if he didn't check with you first, it can be interpreted as unsolicited and disrespectful to you. You can decide how this went about and how you feel about it and block/delete if he's not worth the hassle. Edited November 30, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed reference to hidden content. 1
Girl Fade Away Posted November 29, 2021 Posted November 29, 2021 (edited) 23 minutes ago, CalipsoRose said: To clarify, the picture showed the side of his bootie, so it wasn't just a shirtless pic of him with a towel around his waist - it was him using the towel to only cover his member and everything else was visible. Okay, thanks for clarifying CalipsoRose, my bad for assuming! Yikes. Edited November 29, 2021 by Girl Fade Away
SumGuy Posted December 1, 2021 Posted December 1, 2021 On 11/28/2021 at 3:28 PM, Andy_K said: He's seeing a distinct lack of interest from you since you've been chatting for weeks, haven't met him, and don't seem particularly keen on doing so any time soon. He's showing off to amp up your interest level and get a date. And he is pretty clueless (especially given what she conveyed to him) if he thinks that will work on most, unless they are all about the hook-up. Kind of shows what he is all about. 1
SumGuy Posted December 1, 2021 Posted December 1, 2021 On 11/29/2021 at 1:54 PM, CalipsoRose said: ...But yeah I'm worried it means he just wants casual. It means sex first and connection second. So yes he will want to start casual, and it will be only casual until it is not, but who knows what he will say.
QuietRiot Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 On 11/28/2021 at 6:37 AM, Wiseman2 said: As far as pics, unfortunately since you told him you feel too damaged to date right now, he may have put you in the "ok for sexting" pile. I'd say bingo on this....he figures, "Well, if she's refusing to meet me, maybe I can get something going with her cyber-wise". Of course, not sure why you're giving your contact information when you're not ready to date....so....hmmm.
QuietRiot Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 On 11/29/2021 at 12:21 PM, glows said: To be frank, I'm at an age where this is neither entertaining nor offensive. It would be deleted after some unapologetic inspection. Most importantly I would not carry on talking to someone longer than 2-3 days without meeting face to face. You're inviting these kinds of behaviours if you seem unsure or not confident enough to date. Right...sometimes you only hear part of the story when women complain about guys start sexualizing the conversation....when it's really been enabled.
stillafool Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 To me it means he has no respect for you and either you are down for sex or not because that is all he sees you as a future sex partner.
Girl Fade Away Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 On 11/29/2021 at 10:54 AM, CalipsoRose said: He's the only guy I would want to date right now IF I were in the mood to actually date anyone. But yeah I'm worried it means he just wants casual. @CalipsoRoseis there an update? Did you ever meet him?
Author CalipsoRose Posted December 14, 2021 Author Posted December 14, 2021 On 12/5/2021 at 2:39 PM, Girl Fade Away said: @CalipsoRoseis there an update? Did you ever meet him? No, but I posted a picture of myself on Instagram yesterday and he messaged me with a hammer emoji. I replied, "Hammer?" and he said "You could get the hammer." What does that mean?? I'm assuming its a sexual innuendo? Never heard that before. Maybe I'm old now with new lingo. I didn't respond. Not an appropriate response to a nice picture of me in a dress just standing in my kitchen.
Wiseman2 Posted December 14, 2021 Posted December 14, 2021 4 hours ago, CalipsoRose said: I posted a picture of myself on Instagram yesterday and he messaged me with a hammer emoji. I replied, "Hammer?" and he said "You could get the hammer." Why haven't you deleted and blocked this clown? He's a timewaster. Cut your losses and invest in more viable dating candidates. 5
stillafool Posted December 14, 2021 Posted December 14, 2021 (edited) 8 hours ago, CalipsoRose said: What does that mean?? I'm assuming its a sexual innuendo? Never heard that before. Maybe I'm old now with new lingo. I didn't respond. Not an appropriate response to a nice picture of me in a dress just standing in my kitchen. I know. Is he saying he wants to give you The Hammer? Not good and very disrespectful. Edited December 14, 2021 by stillafool
glows Posted December 14, 2021 Posted December 14, 2021 9 hours ago, CalipsoRose said: No, but I posted a picture of myself on Instagram yesterday and he messaged me with a hammer emoji. I replied, "Hammer?" and he said "You could get the hammer." What does that mean?? I'm assuming its a sexual innuendo? Never heard that before. Maybe I'm old now with new lingo. I didn't respond. Not an appropriate response to a nice picture of me in a dress just standing in my kitchen. Of course it's sexual. And disgusting. Adjust the settings on your social media and make your photos or posts private.
Versacehottie Posted December 14, 2021 Posted December 14, 2021 it means "banging" and he's then taking advantage of the double entendre built into that response (the hammer).
Alvi Posted December 14, 2021 Posted December 14, 2021 I haven't read the entire thread, but no guy who is actually seriously looking for anything long term and forever lasting is going to send a woman nudes. Period.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 15, 2021 Posted December 15, 2021 15 hours ago, glows said: Of course it's sexual. And disgusting. Adjust the settings on your social media and make your photos or posts private. All of this. You don't even know this person, OP. He shouldn't be able to see your social media.
stillafool Posted December 15, 2021 Posted December 15, 2021 22 hours ago, Versacehottie said: it means "banging" and he's then taking advantage of the double entendre built into that response (the hammer). It means something far worse than banging.
jdesey Posted December 19, 2021 Posted December 19, 2021 This is a guy that has no clue! Total rookie move. Be done with this guy. As a man I would never have pulled that move 1
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