shalina1789 Posted November 22, 2021 Share Posted November 22, 2021 Ive been talking to someone for about 2 months. We hit it off rly well, kinda established exclusivity. Recently its slowed down a little, he doesnt text me as much (which i noticed after we slept together). I know he is very busy at work as he has his own business and also is back to back with weddings of close friends which in my culture last for a week. Sometimes he goes about 2 days without messaging me. He had the busy wedding weekend and then back at work, sent me a message at 12am on saturday night saying hi babe. I messaged back and ive not had a response yet he’s posted on instagram. Last week he said we’ll meet up in the evening on weds/thurs but he hasnt let me know. I work 2 jobs and its difficult for me to make plans as i have to work around work. Last week we were supposed to see each other, he said in the morning that day he may be able to and he’ll confirm a little later on. That was at 9am. I didnt hear back from him until 7pm where he then said he cant make it. It was my only day off after working 15 days in a row and i wasnt even able to make plans cos i was waiting on him. anyway, i havent heard back from him since saturday night, shall i double text him or shall i just wait for his reply? I understand hes busy, but so am i. Yet i still make time for him and all my other friends. Is he just playing me? Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted November 22, 2021 Share Posted November 22, 2021 There is no such a thing as being too busy. We all have a minute here and there to message or call. If I cannot text during work hours then when I sit in my car to drive home I make my phone calls. Don't you check your phone before going to bed? he does too, so I am very sorry to say he's not texting because you're not on his mind. He did see your message. Can you explain what is *kinda exclusive*? My suggestion would be to let him show you what he's made of. If you don't text again, how long is it going to take him to get back to you...it's important information, aren't you curious to know how long it will take?. If he gets back to you around the time he's available to see you (have sex) he's not serious.  1 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted November 22, 2021 Share Posted November 22, 2021 Make other plans if you don't hear back from him in a time that's reasonable to you. He doesn't seem as interested in this as you are and quite inconsiderate also of your time/planning. I would let this fade out and eventually stop responding to anything from someone like this. I wouldn't bother responding to any questions either if he wants to know why you've moved on.  Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 This guy is not that interested in you. Â It's quite simple. Â At 2 months into dating, that should be the honeymoon stage, the peak of attraction and excitement in a dating relationship. Â He sounds very lukewarm about you and he's not interested enough to make seeing you a priority. Â Don't ever chase a guy who's not that into you. Â Don't double text him. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 7 hours ago, shalina1789 said: Ive been talking to someone for about 2 months. We hit it off rly well, kinda established exclusivity. Sounds like he's in another relationship. At best, he's a time waster. Anyone who won't meet in a timely fashion is a red flag 🚩. Delete and block him. Could be a scammer, catfish, etc. Always shut down people who refuse (or stall) meeting up . Link to post Share on other sites
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