buzzie2 Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 I don't know anyone that I can talk to this about, so I'm hoping that someone in this forum can help me out. Well I'm 27 years old (female) and feel that my life is falling apart. I finally got hired at a good job and then I find out that all the other girls in my department have been getting hours and I havent gotten any. When I asked my boss when my next shift was she just said"I'll call you", while I knew everyone else in my department got called in to work. Thats just the tip of the ice berg. The other thing is that this guy that I'm friends with who I've been in love with for the past 2and a half years is moving to another province in two weeks. The reason I have never told him is because he is in another relationship. I would never have an affair with a married man and he knows I am saving myself for marriage. He and his wife have a really rocky marriage and I was secretly hoping they would have split up by now, but things have turned around for them because they just bought their first home together. I feel so lonely and like no body loves me. Does anyone have any advice for me as to how to get my self esteem back and feel better about my life?
scobro Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 You need to cheer up girl life ain't that bad for you.I think half the problem is you are in love with a married man which is not good for the emotions.The other thing is him moving is a blessing in disguise for you,let him go he is married there are lots of single guys out there. If you are worried about your job start applying for a new one chances are you will find a better situation.I think you also should start getting active in doing things you like to do to take your mind off all the negative thoughts you are feeling right now. To say nobody loves you I think what you mean is that married friend doesn't love you well guess what he doesn't he is married so you need to get over it and since he is moving even better. Start thinking about what is best for you what you like to do and your life will get a whole lot happier.If you had a new job a great new boyfriend and a future you could look forward to how would that make you feel?I would guess pretty good and a whole lot better than how you feel now right?So go get that life be happy with you and the world will look a whole lot better.Good luck to you.
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