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I was on hinge and I got bored I swiped right on all guys 5 times. And one of them was him. It said he “invited me to start the chat” Why would he do this? He blocked me on sunday after I confirmed plans. 

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Personally I’d ignore him. Why did you swipe on someone who blocked you after making plans? His behavior sounds juvenile and I guess I wouldn’t care why he did what he did. 

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1 minute ago, ClearEyes-FullHeart said:

Personally I’d ignore him. Why did you swipe on someone who blocked you after making plans? His behavior sounds juvenile and I guess I wouldn’t care why he did what he did. 

because i liked his response on one of the prompts and honestly i’m not even mad about not seeing him. i agree it wasn’t gonna be smiles and giggles anyways loll

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Did you set up a new account? If you've already swiped right on him once, why is he showing up again?

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Why would he invite you to chat?   Most likely, he forgot who you are.

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3 minutes ago, glows said:

Did you set up a new account? If you've already swiped right on him once, why is he showing up again?

we did not meet on hinge, i got hinge about 2 weeks ago. we met on facebook dating. 

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1 minute ago, basil67 said:

Why would he invite you to chat?   Most likely, he forgot who you are.

yeah i was thinking that too. 

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He blew you off for your date and then blocked you.

Just keep moving along.

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16 minutes ago, Alpaca said:

He blew you off for your date and then blocked you.

Just keep moving along.

it’s just funny how on his prompt says “believe it or not i’m still single” and supposedly he’s a ladies man loll

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13 hours ago, GoodVibess said:

it’s just funny how on his prompt says “believe it or not i’m still single” and supposedly he’s a ladies man loll

Believe it or not? Oh boy, what a loser.

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On 11/20/2021 at 8:54 AM, Alpaca said:

Believe it or not? Oh boy, what a loser.

he said he doesn’t remember me at all 

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On 11/19/2021 at 5:53 PM, basil67 said:

Why would he invite you to chat?   Most likely, he forgot who you are.

yeah he said he doesn’t know me and never blocked me. he said i am getting him confused for another dude when it’s definitely him….

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Yep, he doesn't remember you.

The better question is that given he'd already blocked you, why did you swipe on him again somewhere else and why are you giving his actions any thought?  

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1 hour ago, basil67 said:

Yep, he doesn't remember you.

The better question is that given he'd already blocked you, why did you swipe on him again somewhere else and why are you giving his actions any thought?  

i was curious and i asked why he blocked me so suddenly. and that was his response.

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5 hours ago, GoodVibess said:

he said he doesn’t remember me at all 

Possibly, but doubtful.

I'm not sure why you're wasting your time with him.

You both communicated for months, he kept being wishy washy with dates, when you finally had a date he blew you off and then blocked you.

 

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You're dwelling too much on this guy, @OP. It seems his rejection of you (in that bizarre fashion) matters more to you than it should.

Now, remember, you don't know this guy from Adam. Block him. Resist the temptation to see if you match with him elsewhere. And spend some time working on your self-esteem. Because the fact that you're still here talking about him suggests that you're giving him power over you.

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9 hours ago, GoodVibess said:

i was curious and i asked why he blocked me so suddenly. and that was his response.

Forget this guy now. 

His interest level did not match yours it's really not worth trying to pry this door open again. 

 

 

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OP I think you're the same one in the other thread attracted to the "bad boy" type that doesn't pay much attention to you.

This is the same thing, and this is what you have to look forward to when you pursue these guys.

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Did you actually talked to him over the phone or face timed? If you only texted it could be someone catfishing.

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10 minutes ago, smackie9 said:

Did you actually talked to him over the phone or face timed? If you only texted it could be someone catfishing.

we talked and sent each other snaps. he was texting me and asked me “when are you free?” i replied with this friday or this weekend either works” he replied with “word” then i asked him “how about u?” he didn’t reply to that. this conversation was last night.

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On 11/19/2021 at 7:38 PM, GoodVibess said:

it’s just funny how on his prompt says “believe it or not i’m still single” and supposedly he’s a ladies man loll

Ladies is plural.  He has more than one that's why he's still single.

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1 hour ago, GoodVibess said:

we talked and sent each other snaps. he was texting me and asked me “when are you free?” i replied with this friday or this weekend either works” he replied with “word” then i asked him “how about u?” he didn’t reply to that. this conversation was last night.

This is probably when he realized it was you.

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11 minutes ago, stillafool said:

This is probably when he realized it was you.

actually…he sent me a screenshot of our conversation and he said he knew who i was. this was before asking me when i’m free. he said to forget about the past and move forward and that he still wants to meet.

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21 hours ago, GoodVibess said:

he said he doesn’t remember me at all 

My goodness this tells you how many women he's going through.  He doesn't even remember you from last week.  Surely you can do better than this.

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