primitivegal Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 OK...My daughter is 18 and was dating a guy who is 20..they have only been dating for about 5 weeks and she told me they had sex a couple of weeks ago..3 days later she sees him at the mall (i was there)and he is with his ex..whom he then tells her she is 2 months pregnant...It has been a mess since then..my daughter had a similar relationship 2 years ago..what is funny is the guys both have similar backgrounds..bad family relationships..brothers and sister that have kids without being married..bad fathers..I didn't want to become involved in this..but i listened to her After a month of telling her all these plans they had together ..and everything else,once he finds out the ex is pregnant he does a 180..He tells my daughter he is not marrying the girl and he does not want a committed relationship..a complete turn of face..She agreed to stay by his side and help..but now he doesn't return her emails and the last 2 days he is online but shows himself offline on MSN..She emailed him this morning and told him this wasn't going to work and that she was giving him space..reminding him that he had someone to go home to a pregnant ex (he lives with her parents) and she doesn't ..He agreed he hasn't talked much to her and won't say if he is moving out of her house.My daughter said that she feels like a relationship breaker if she stays with him..He in turn wanted to make himself feel good by saying that he just wanted to make her feel good and that she is just gorgeous and sexy and funny..and that he was basically a slut.. She went to class this noon(college)and I tried to tell her to leave him alone and just ignore him..Was I wrong in doing this...I am so torn up..the words he used were the words her last ex used when they broke up..that is what's so scary ..I just keep seeing a pattern in her relationships..advice please
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