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met someone special turns out maybe they have problems?


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3 minutes ago, jerrygordon3 said:

this is good advice, I just fell for her initially because of how we were together, but her looks of course got me in the door? and yes the sex is really good too. but i do actually love this girl. I love looking at her. love being around her. I love it all. except she throws me away like im the worst person in the world suddenly and it totally destroys my confidence

Seems like more of an addiction than love.  When you love someone, you do not label them narcissistic and other debasing labels as you have on this thread.  I think it is time to ask YOURSELF why you want to stay with such a toxic and entitled person and willing to bend over backwards to please her, to appease her, to 100% provide for her, even at the risk of your own self-respect.  If it IS because of the hot sex, then you have a sex addition of some kind.  Therapy may be beneficial.

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33 minutes ago, jerrygordon3 said:

well I thought she really loved me. but she just ended it. i tried my best and offered to take care of her financially. But im not wealthy. 

She ended it because she has no respect for you.  You might have even repulsed her.  Given how she treated you, what is emboldened is cringeworthy.  I encourage you to re-read this entire thread and absorb everything posted.  I am sorry and hope you will learn from this.  

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1 hour ago, Girl Fade Away said:

She ended it because she has no respect for you.  You might have even repulsed her.  Given how she treated you, what is emboldened is cringeworthy.  I encourage you to re-read this entire thread and absorb everything posted.  I am sorry and hope you will learn from this.  

thanks. cringeworthy. well thats what a lot of women expect here. but ya. I have totally thrown away my self worth chasing this girl and I never do things like that. I usually take zero crap and abuse. I dont put up with tantrums. I make sure im treated well. IDK how this got away from me. she got in my head. its crazy... thats why i think shes toxic cause she goes hot and cold and clearly does it just to mess with me. its so much drama, im exhausted and have been barely sleeping.

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