Saracena Posted November 11, 2021 Posted November 11, 2021 13 hours ago, Amanda141 said: He is Indian but he has been living here in Germany for almost a decade, and he's not into arranged marriages. However, I feel that his family (and himself) are pressuring him to start a family, also because all of his Indian friends in India are married. . I missed this earlier. While he may be against arranged marriage in the strict sense, you can safely bet the girl he does eventually marry will be someone his family approves of or indeed may have even introduced him to. Very few actually marry outside their own culture. Of course he neglected to tell you this because that way, you might never have become in involved with him. 1
elaine567 Posted November 11, 2021 Posted November 11, 2021 8 minutes ago, Saracena said: Very few actually marry outside their own culture. And some have the idea Western woman are easy, so they use them to get sex on tap when single. Something that may be more difficult to get from their own women. Once they decide to marry or get serious, they look for "better" and "purer" women from their own culture. 2
Sun Seeker Posted November 11, 2021 Posted November 11, 2021 I disagree you did nothing wrong. You made a big mistake seeing and talking to him again when he got back in touch in September. Never go back to an ex. He already dumped you once with the poor excuse of age, which really translates to not being that into you. He's not confused about anything, he just wanted to keep you casual as he saw you as nothing more than that. All the warning signs were there, you just chose not to see them as you were swept up in the moment. 1
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