spiderowl Posted November 13, 2021 Posted November 13, 2021 (edited) On 11/8/2021 at 4:01 PM, jenny 73 said: Hi all, I have heard a lot of things about this but wanted to know your takes. Does it matter if I reach out to the guy first or not after a good first date (in my mind at least)? Normally I exercise open communication and want to text him saying i had a good time and thank him but sometimes I hear that women should wait to hear back first and I personally don't want to make him reply if he is not really interested. What do you suggest ? I think most guys would follow up with a date something in order to see what you thought about the evening. There is nothing to stop you doing it first though. Only thing I would say is do not expect anything back. Either he wants to see you again or he doesn't. If he doesn't get back to you quickly, you know where you stand. Reaching out to him first might put you in a slightly weaker spot - he hasn't had chance to absorb what he feels about you - but it is unlikely to put off someone really interested. Edited November 13, 2021 by spiderowl 1
Alpacalia Posted November 13, 2021 Posted November 13, 2021 2 hours ago, Girl Fade Away said: As I mentioned, I have had men wait 1-2 WEEKS to ask me out again and we had long term relationships, my current boyfriend waited about one week to reach out after our first date and NO he is definitely not insecure or meek! mmmm...well... Everyone's experience is different .
Girl Fade Away Posted November 13, 2021 Posted November 13, 2021 (edited) 37 minutes ago, Alpaca said: mmmm...well... Everyone's experience is different . Yes I realize that, maybe you missed the first half of my post? I posted it in support of your opinion below that just because a man waits to ask a woman out again, it does NOT mean he is insecure or meek. Which I agree with! "I am really not sure where this concept comes from that if he isn't asking a woman out pronto he's some insecure meek man." Edited November 13, 2021 by Girl Fade Away 2
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