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well, woggle, if you know her sooo well.....tell her what you want.

 

 

But let us know the outcome.

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Younger men only get involved with older women for one reason.

 

Why do older women get involved with younger men?

 

If the age difference is inverted, does the nature of the reasoning change?

 

What is the maximum age difference where it may not just be about sex?

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Why do older women get involved with younger men?

 

If the age difference is inverted, does the nature of the reasoning change?

An older woman with half a brain will get involved with a younger man for the same reason. There are some less intelligent older women that don't realize what's going on and they end up getting hurt.

 

What is the maximum age difference where it may not just be about sex?

 

You mean the minimum acceptable age difference? It changes and becomes greater the older the people in question are.

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So you can sense her evil even though have never met her and she doesn't even post on this forum?

Yes I can.

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Yes I can.

 

And how do you do this?

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And how do you do this?

As I said, I'm brilliant.

 

Besides, we all remember the post where the two of you sat around listening to your ex-wife's messages begging for mercy just laughing at her. You are both evil.

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What is the maximum age difference where it may not just be about sex?

the max, is the same as the minimum. for some men and women "dating" is only about sex.

 

it really is more dependant on the person and their particular goal.

 

If i were to "date" an older man (20+ yrs) it would most definately be HAVE to be love, or his bank account.

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As I said, I'm brilliant.

 

Besides, we all remember the post where the two of you sat around listening to your ex-wife's messages begging for mercy just laughing at her. You are both evil.

 

My ex deserves it. You had to hear them and you would know why we were laughing. I might post the messages on here.

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I think you should tell her. I mean, just reading your posts, it's obvious that you've had issues with women and went through a bitter stage. I'm sure she knows this already. Let her know that she was the one who pulled you out of this bitterness. I bet she'll appreciate that.

 

Also, the reason I think you should tell her doesn't have anything to do with thinking she has a "right to know". It has to do with you. It sounds like it would be good to get it off your chest. Plus any solid relationship exists without secrets. If you've got something you feel you are actively keeping from her, let it out. She sounds like the kinda woman who can handle it. Plus she should know what's she's getting into!! :rolleyes:

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the max, is the same as the minimum. for some men and women "dating" is only about sex.

 

it really is more dependant on the person and their particular goal.

 

If i were to "date" an older man (20+ yrs) it would most definately be HAVE to be love, or his bank account.

 

She is not even 20+ older than me. I am 26 and she is 41. Age is justa number anyway and all my friends and family love her. My father tells me to marry her. I told her if things are still this good next summer I will marry her in June.

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She is not even 20+ older than me. I am 26 and she is 41. Age is justa number anyway and all my friends and family love her. My father tells me to marry her. I told her if things are still this good next summer I will marry her in June.

I hope you two spawn evil babies.

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I hope you two spawn evil babies.

 

That was uncalled for.

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That was uncalled for.

 

Come on Woogle .. You have trashed women for months with uncalled for posts and now someone throws something out on you and you get all offended :laugh:

 

I find that very hypocritical

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Come on Woogle .. You have trashed women for months with uncalled for posts and now someone throws something out on you and you get all offended :laugh:

 

I find that very hypocritical

 

I don't insult people personally and I don't insult their kids.

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An older woman with half a brain will get involved with a younger man for the same reason. There are some less intelligent older women that don't realize what's going on and they end up getting hurt.

 

The other question I asked was if you'd feel differently were the May-December genders reversed.

 

Isn't it a bit chauvanistic to feel that in a situation where the woman is far older, she isn't the one who is navigating the relationship? I think the consensus here would be that when a man in his forties is dating a woman in her twenties, and the parties don't share love, he is buying her or tricking her, somehow taking advantage of her.

 

For what it's worth, a woman I used to date recently married and had a child with a man twelve years her junior.

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I don't insult people personally and I don't insult their kids.

Oh ok. Wait. I hope that evil couples spawn evil babies. But not all couples are evil.You shouldn't be offended if you think you're not one of them.

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I hope you two spawn evil babies.
Evil twin babies. :lmao:

 

Woggle, this kind of remark is exactly of the same kind that you always make. So, don't pretend to be offended by it.

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Oh ok. Wait. I hope that evil couples spawn evil babies. But not all couples are evil.You shouldn't be offended if you think you're not one of them.

 

You called her evil and you said you hope WE spawn evil babies. You personally named her and us.

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I think the consensus here would be that when a man in his forties is dating a woman in her twenties, and the parties don't share love, he is buying her or tricking her, somehow taking advantage of her.

 

You're not giving me much to go on here. I agree with you scratch. It goes both ways

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Oh ok. Wait. I hope that evil couples spawn evil babies. But not all couples are evil.You shouldn't be offended if you think you're not one of them.

Too funny. :lmao:

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We will have kids though. She wants kids in the future and so do I.

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We will have kids though. She wants kids in the future and so do I.

Good for you :lmao:

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Good for you :lmao:

I will raise them to be like me. Just think about it I will be molding a child's mind. Scary huh?

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Some people should not complain when we're not talking about them. Unless of course they don't have a clear conscience. :lmao:

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