Was I harsh to tell my friend I only call them unless I schedule it?

[Hokuto]

I have a uni friend who is away and sometimes we talk/call that is scheduled. The other day, I accidentally hit call on and ended it. When they saw it, they told me they were in class when I called and said sorry for not answering. I then said "oh it was an accident, I wouldn't call unless we scheduled, which is why I said to ignore it.". I do wonder if maybe that sounded kinda cold or a little callous, so

[basil67]

I wouldn't say it sounded cold or callous.  But was a strangely formal.

[Hokuto]

5 minutes ago, basil67 said:

I wouldn't say it sounded cold or callous.  But was a strangely formal.

What do you mean?

[basil67]

I would responded with "no worries, I dialed you by accident anyway "

Are you on the autism spectrum by chance?  

[Wiseman2]

8 hours ago, Hokuto said:

. I then said "oh it was an accident, I wouldn't call unless we scheduled, which is why I said to ignore it."

Use text instead.

[stillafool]

Why do you care so much what this one particular friend thinks?  Are you in love with him?

[ShyViolet]

It's a bit bizarre how many threads you keep starting about this one particular person.  Are you obsessed with them?

[glows]

No, nothing sounds wrong with what you wrote if you usually schedule your calls. This seems very ordinary.

Is that person not responding to you anymore? Why do you second guess yourself?

[Elenabubka]

On 02.11.2021 at 03:57, Hokuto said:

У меня есть друг из универа, который уезжает, и иногда мы разговариваем / звоним по расписанию. На днях я случайно нажал на звонок и отключил его. Когда они увидели это, они сказали мне, что были в классе, когда я позвонил и извинился за то, что не ответил. Затем я сказал: «О, это был несчастный случай, я бы не позвонил, если мы не назначим время, поэтому я сказал игнорировать это». Мне интересно, может быть, это прозвучало холодно или немного бессердечно, так что

It seems a little chilly to me if this is your close friend