Final Heaven Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 So I met this girl at my work place, she was a new comer so she was kinda quiet. Anyway when I first saw her, I found her quite attractive to my liking, so after a while I finally approached her and started a conversation. The conversation didn't go as well as I planned because I just had to know more about her before I plan my next move. But before I knew it we have skipped through half the conversation and were talking about available job oppurtunities. Anyway at the end of the conversation she handed me her contact number and said to call her if I had any good jobs available. I didn't get much from her besides her age, that she was 17 which is like 6 years my junior since I am 24. I was surprised cause still she look matured enough to be in her 20s I know some people have a thing about age gap but for me it doesn't really matter. But anyway now I am wondering what should be my next move. I know the first thing I should have done was to find out if she is currently attached to anyone, but I screwed up. Anyway now I am wondering, should I call her? If I did what should I say to her?
elijahBailey Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 dude, try not be get involved with anyone at work. There are so many opportunities outside of the workplace I don't understand why people need to get hitched at work....... unless you don't mind yourself becoming the subject of the office rumor mill.
Author Final Heaven Posted October 20, 2005 Author Posted October 20, 2005 It wasn't even my intention to get hitched at work. The reason I am with this job is because I am trying to keep myself occupied. Actually being the office rumor mill or not doesn't really matter me one bit. I have seen my ex colleagues get together and now both of them are happily married couples. Besides I am not in some high ranking post where my females colleagues will actually benefit if they are in some sort of relations with me. It is because of the age gap difference that is making things out of place. Now that I got her phone number I just need some light on what I should do next? To call her or just forget about it. (Btw I quit that job a week ago)
SuperMonk Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 dude, try not be get involved with anyone at work. There are so many opportunities outside of the workplace I don't understand why people need to get hitched at work....... unless you don't mind yourself becoming the subject of the office rumor mill. Sometimes it happens, if the opportunity exists to meet "the one" then nothing will stop someone from doing unorthodox dating habits. I also don't recommend dating at workplaces, but it sometimes happens.
Author Final Heaven Posted October 21, 2005 Author Posted October 21, 2005 Ok thx for the head on guys. I think I have an idea on what should be done. I just hope that it wouldn't be my biggest regrets later on.
Devildog Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 You know, I don't think people realize there is attractive and "work attractive". Yeah, she might seem hot next to 58 year old Margaret from accounting, but if you saw her in a club, next to other young women, would she still look so attractive? Ask yourself this before you get involved with a work relationship, in addition to "how badly will my career be screwed when this doesn't work?"
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