evilina2255 Posted October 20, 2021 Posted October 20, 2021 Hey everyone! Guys, could you tell me please, do you think I am a loser being a virgin at 24 and have never kissed a woman? I just want to know your honest opinion)
Wiseman2 Posted October 20, 2021 Posted October 20, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, evilina2255 said: Hey everyone! Guys, could you tell me please, do you think I am a loser being a virgin at 24 and have never kissed a woman? I just want to know your honest opinion) Depends on a lot of things such as culture/religion etc. Are you asking girls out? Are you on dating apps? Do you go to school? Do you have a job and your own place? Do you know how to talk to women and feel at ease with small talk and suggesting coffee. You don't start out with sex. Sex comes after you date and can form a bond so she wants to be intimate with you. Try to avoid being self absorbed and worrying about getting laid. First worry about getting dates. Edited October 20, 2021 by Wiseman2
FMW Posted October 20, 2021 Posted October 20, 2021 No, you're not a loser. There's no need to do what it seems everyone else is doing. Are you mainly bothered what other people think, or do you really want to date/kiss/have sex? If the former, relax and follow your own path, let things unfold naturally in their own time. Don't compare yourself to others. If it's the latter, talk with friends or read articles or books on dating tips.
GuitarGuy7 Posted October 20, 2021 Posted October 20, 2021 15 hours ago, evilina2255 said: Hey everyone! Guys, could you tell me please, do you think I am a loser being a virgin at 24 and have never kissed a woman? I just want to know your honest opinion) Dating is harder for dudes in general, so it's easier to wind up a 24 year old virgin if you're a man. Don't get me wrong, it's still uncommon, but it's a lot more common for dudes to wind up virgins at later ages, simply because dating is harder for men in general. Introversion and/or poor social skills is more of a penalty for men than it is for women when it comes to dating, simply due to the cultural expectation that men are supposed to be the pursuers/initiators. My suggestion is to work on your looks and social skills to increase your chances. 1
Maldives Posted October 21, 2021 Posted October 21, 2021 No definatley not. I lost my virginity at 24 and am 50 now.
dramafreezone Posted October 21, 2021 Posted October 21, 2021 No, but man, time to step it up. This is when dating has nothing to do with your money or any of that, and you're missing out on that. Hang out with guys that are good with women, and you'll benefit a good bit just from being in proximity. Go where they go, just being OUT increases your chances than staying inside. Now if you're working towards a career, then you can't lose sight of that either, because that's important for your dating prospects in 5-10 years for you.
ResentCourtship2099 Posted October 23, 2021 Posted October 23, 2021 It reminds, based on discussions or just research I've done over the years, a lot of people say that 25 is the magic age number in which people are considered to be in the extreme minority for never having had sexual intercourse, 25 and above obviously, or just when people start to feel the most insecure if they have not had sex yet. If people don't lose their virginity in their teenage years, it's an almost for sure guarantee it will happen in their early or beginning of their 20s. I've long been a fan of the belief that men need to be more socially talented or have better social skills than women do in order to succeed in the dating world or human mating system. Probably because the burden has always been and always will be of men being expected to make the first move and do the asking out, initiate the relationship.
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