mcgee0 Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 Would you want sex if your mom was in the next room, within hearing distance?
AlmostMarried77 Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 Would you want sex if your mom was in the next room, within hearing distance? I just read your other post and now i understand why you're asking He's a guy - he will want sex But i really can see why you don't want to.
whichwayisup Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 Female here...To answer your question, yes! It really is fun to TRY to have quiet sex...It's sort of taboo and dangerous...hehehehe...
Jayhawks Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 If you were my wife and my mother was in the next room I would still want sex. Your married so don't feel embarassed.
Art_Critic Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 Yes.. When I was married and we would go to my Mom's for a visit we would have sex.. it was fun to have to be real quiet.. Shhhhh.. I'm hunting wabbit !!!
Author mcgee0 Posted October 20, 2005 Author Posted October 20, 2005 would you do this kind of thing on a regular basis? I wouldn't give a sh*t, either, if it was a sneaky, rebellious-type thing. I mean, mom's always there...
Pyro Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 would you do this kind of thing on a regular basis? I wouldn't give a sh*t, either, if it was a sneaky, rebellious-type thing. I mean, mom's always there... Not on a regular basis. For me, I like my sex to be vocal and loud.
Scott S Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 Would you want sex if your mom was in the next room, within hearing distance? Gina absolutely would not, which would make my position on the issue irrelevant. Fortunately neither of us live with our parents.
AlmostMarried77 Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 yeah thats just it.. if its a once in a while thing then its like forced variety... but the whole time? no... its like you can never really let go of yourself
whichwayisup Posted October 22, 2005 Posted October 22, 2005 yeah thats just it.. if its a once in a while thing then its like forced variety... but the whole time? no... its like you can never really let go of yourself Or maybe he needs that excitement to get off? Just tell him it bothers you that it happens so much. See how he reacts and maybe make special time alone so she isn't around. Does she live with you two or something?
Author mcgee0 Posted October 25, 2005 Author Posted October 25, 2005 we do live with his mom. We have for 5 years. ( My whole story is on here in another thread.) I cannot become intimate with him at all. We never have any privacy. It disgusts me that he can even get it up at all in this situation. There is a thin wall between our room and his mom's. I hear her snoring everynight. I just cannot bring myself to feel sexually comfortable in this enviroment, and he gets mad at me about it. I was just wondering how other guys would respond to this situation. Thanks.
burt Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Maybe a blow job would be more quiet and less messy....If that was an option.
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 I was just wondering how other guys would respond to this situation. Thanks. I would feel just like you do Your feeling are valid.. You could create a time that you can be together when his mom isn't around.. Go to a hotel.. Use the car .. Just do it softly and quiet.. Or.. MOVE.. Something does tell me that his mom being in the house is affecting more aspects of your marriage than just sex. You need to address this issue with your hubby,,
slubberdegullion Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 sssshhhhh... be vewy vewy kwiet... hehehehehehe
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Honey... What do you mean you want to tea bag me ?
Author mcgee0 Posted October 26, 2005 Author Posted October 26, 2005 gee, Burt. You've totally solved all my problems!!!! I will just completely forget about MY needs (since they don't matter) and please my husband! Ahhhh, who cares that he doesn't support our FAMILY and is JUST FINE with mooching off of his mama? A BJ is the answer!!!! It'll be FUN, just like doing laundry! One more chore to the list?
Walk Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 I can understand how P'sed off you would be about your situation, but frankly, I don't think you wanted advice on how to deal with having sex in the bedroom next to your mother-in-law. But if you're going to post something like that, then don't get mad that someone gave a suggestion. And if it wasn't a situation you were in every single night, then a BJ would be a good idea. Wish I'd thought of that for the times my exH had wanted sex at mother-in-laws house. Why don't you move? Is his Mom disabled, or sick? Or, if you think your H is a mooch and a loser who won't change, why do you stay?
SILLYRABBIT Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 My Mother in Law was in the next room last night and I still wanted sex...didn't get it, but still wanted it.
glittergurl Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 OMG me and my husband did it in his uncle's house, right next to his bedroom. AAARRGHHHHHH We didn't make any noise, it was one of the best sex we've ever had. Hahah:D
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