Posted about sleeping with a coworker last month and she went back to her ex. I should have listened :

[ttrain9]

Hi all, I posted about a coworker I was getting close with about last month.

A lot happened since then - I should have listened to everyone when they told me to stay away from her. I distanced myself from her when she was being very cold but this eventually just made her come after me with a lot of intensity. She is really attractive and I don't really have many other options at the moment and so I gave in.

We ended up sleeping together every day for about 3 weeks and she was treating me like a boyfriend - always texting me in the morning and throughout the day, cuddling me and stroking my hair whilst I slept etc. and I was intending on getting into anything serious but she just made me feel so good and I started to get attached.

Last weekend she started to seem a lot less interested in affection/sex and seemed to be avoiding me and after going clubbing with friends and seeing her flirting with a lot of other guys, I tried to have a conversation about her about what we were doing and if she even wanted to continue it. She said she did, said she wasn't interested in other guys...only me.

And then we didn't see each other for a week and she kept making excuses to not see me - said she was in a bit of a mental rut and wanted to be alone. Eventually I confronted her about it and she disclosed she is going back home to see her ex...

I wasn't intending on getting attached but damn I feel like an idiot. All our mutual friends and the people who kindly took the time to reply to my last post warned me about her but I didn't listen. I just feel like I was used and discarded and its a real shame since she has pretty much been my best friend for the past few months.

 

 

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[ttrain9]

Just re-reading some of the replies from you all from my previous post...I feel like such an idiot for sleeping with her 

[Wiseman2]

6 hours ago, ttrain9 said:

 she disclosed she is going back home to see her ex.

It's not her ex, it's her hometown BF. You dodged a bullet if she's a club floozie who sleeps around with an "ex" back home.

[Blind-Sided]

You aren't an idiot.  You had a good time, while it lasted, and you learned about it.  Life lessons are best learned by a few mistakes.

I'm sorry it ended that way, but you will be fine in a few weeks.

I wish you happiness in moving forward. 

[smackie9]

You live you learn you grow. You have lots to think about.