IrinaM Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 Ryan did you ever go on an actual date with this woman?
Author RyanM Posted March 6, 2022 Author Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/4/2022 at 5:40 AM, IrinaM said: Ryan did you ever go on an actual date with this woman? No. Given how she acts, a normal sit down date never worked out.
Author RyanM Posted March 6, 2022 Author Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/3/2022 at 10:08 PM, basil67 said: You still haven't blocked her???? She actually blocked me on social media but still acts sporadically and for a short time. I dont really undersrand the motivation.
Wiseman2 Posted March 6, 2022 Posted March 6, 2022 41 minutes ago, RyanM said: She actually blocked me on social media Leave her alone. Focus on women who want to date you.
Author RyanM Posted March 6, 2022 Author Posted March 6, 2022 5 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Leave her alone. Focus on women who want to date you. I dont create fake accounts or anything. Shes the one who keeps making calls for less than a minute. I have no idea why anyone would do that. I dont know men who do that for instance.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 6, 2022 Posted March 6, 2022 1 hour ago, RyanM said: She actually blocked me on social media but still acts sporadically and for a short time. I dont really undersrand the motivation. Well, what is your motivation in keeping lines of communication open with this weirdo?
Author RyanM Posted March 6, 2022 Author Posted March 6, 2022 5 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: Well, what is your motivation in keeping lines of communication open with this weirdo? It was fun at first but I thought the game would end last summer but its still lingering. I dont see how it can take a person more than six months to determine if they wanna date someone or not.
basil67 Posted March 6, 2022 Posted March 6, 2022 What makes you believe she's trying to decide whether or not to date you? 1
Author RyanM Posted March 6, 2022 Author Posted March 6, 2022 2 hours ago, basil67 said: What makes you believe she's trying to decide whether or not to date you? She keeps playing odd games for many months and repeatedly calling me without provocation telling me she may date me later.
basil67 Posted March 6, 2022 Posted March 6, 2022 OK. Is she super hot? It's the only reason I can think of for you allowing her to continue contacting you.
Author RyanM Posted March 6, 2022 Author Posted March 6, 2022 (edited) 2 hours ago, basil67 said: OK. Is she super hot? It's the only reason I can think of for you allowing her to continue contacting you. She is fairly hot but not the hottest. Do you think she is just messing with me for her entertainment like a prank caller or is there more to her plan probably? Edited March 7, 2022 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language
basil67 Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 2 hours ago, RyanM said: Do you think she is just messing with me for her entertainment like a prank caller or is there more to her plan probably? None of us can even begin to imagine the motivation of someone who's behaviour was previously - and accurately - described as a 'nut job'. You have two choices: Either continue dangling on a string hoping for her attention, or take matters into your own hands and block her. The choice is yours. But if you choose to dangle on her string, then you need to be able to deal with all the uncertainty which comes with it.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 9 hours ago, RyanM said: She keeps playing odd games for many months and repeatedly calling me without provocation telling me she may date me later. She doesn't want to date you. She just enjoys yanking your chain. Where is your self-respect, Ryan?
Author RyanM Posted March 7, 2022 Author Posted March 7, 2022 4 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: She doesn't want to date you. She just enjoys yanking your chain. Where is your self-respect, Ryan? How do you know she just doesnt issues interacting with men she has interest in and does unusual things with them? Shes staying at another guys house for months now but it appears she lives and sleeps on his couch. Hes very feminine and nerdy though. I personally never dated a woman for months without sharing a bed (short of arguments).
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 My guy, you need to wake up. She is apparently living with another guy and you would be very naive to believe she just sleeps on his couch. Again, I question where your self-respect is. Not many guys would tolerate a woman wasting their time like you are here. It says more about you than her. Do you lack other dating options?
Author RyanM Posted March 7, 2022 Author Posted March 7, 2022 1 minute ago, ExpatInItaly said: My guy, you need to wake up. She is apparently living with another guy and you would be very naive to believe she just sleeps on his couch. Again, I question where your self-respect is. Not many guys would tolerate a woman wasting their time like you are here. It says more about you than her. Do you lack other dating options? Given my experiences with her (ex: her running away from me and complaining to random bar patrons that i dont love her enough when we barely met), photos and statements of her that shes staying on couch, and the guy shes with being very geeky and out of touch, I think its plausible they are practically friends. But she also messaged me from a fake account asking me if i live by myself last year so she may just be going from man to man using them for a place to stay. Can you see that? I got dating options. Unfortunately many women who hit on me are older like in late 30a and fewer women in theirs 20s wanna date. The ones that do are a bit boring. Thats why I wanna figure out this game with this woman.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 5 minutes ago, RyanM said: But she also messaged me from a fake account asking me if i live by myself last year so she may just be going from man to man using them for a place to stay. Can you see that? No. She sounds plain weird and unstable, frankly speaking.
Author RyanM Posted March 7, 2022 Author Posted March 7, 2022 7 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: No. She sounds plain weird and unstable, frankly speaking. So basically anything she says or posts or does should be seen as a possible decoy and taken with a grain of salt?
Kamille Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 (edited) She's weird, but your focus on her is unsettling. At best, she's given you crumbs. More likely, you're reading way too much into her every action to match your theory that she's interested in you. Honestly, she probably isn't interested. Interested people don't waste your time like this. I'm guessing there's a whole half of the story that you aren't telling us, which is that you contact her, comment on her posts, seek her out in some way. Edited March 7, 2022 by Kamille 2
Author RyanM Posted March 7, 2022 Author Posted March 7, 2022 6 minutes ago, Kamille said: She's weird, but your focus on her is unsettling. At best, she's given you crumbs. More likely, you're reading way too much into her every action to match your theory that she's interested in you. Honestly, she probably isn't interested. Interested people don't waste your time like this. I'm guessing there's a whole half of the story that you aren't telling us, which is that you contact her, comment on her posts, seek her out in some way. I havent commented on any of her stuff since like August/September. She didnt like anything I wrote on her social media while liking everyone elses posts. Then like a week after she suddenly blocked me. Then I stopped all interaction with her for a while and she began making 30 second calls insisting she hasnt made up her mind if she wants to date me and hanging up. Maybe something got to her that I said to someone else but we had no direct interaction recently besides the brief calls she initiated. I get she has no serious interest but why make calls and not just let it go then?
Author RyanM Posted March 7, 2022 Author Posted March 7, 2022 13 minutes ago, Kamille said: She's weird, but your focus on her is unsettling. At best, she's given you crumbs. More likely, you're reading way too much into her every action to match your theory that she's interested in you. Honestly, she probably isn't interested. Interested people don't waste your time like this. I'm guessing there's a whole half of the story that you aren't telling us, which is that you contact her, comment on her posts, seek her out in some way. The first call she made she made was along the lines "I talk you dont talk Im doing other things now i dont want any interactions with you and i wont be contacting you for a few months ill call you in a few months when i make up my mind [hang up]" Second one was along the lines "remember my call from few months back? Im still not ready or decided. If u hear from me again then i am [hang up]."
Author RyanM Posted March 7, 2022 Author Posted March 7, 2022 21 minutes ago, Kamille said: She's weird, but your focus on her is unsettling. At best, she's given you crumbs. More likely, you're reading way too much into her every action to match your theory that she's interested in you. Honestly, she probably isn't interested. Interested people don't waste your time like this. I'm guessing there's a whole half of the story that you aren't telling us, which is that you contact her, comment on her posts, seek her out in some way. And no one of the posts I made were provocative or indicative of my interest. The last post I think i said was 'congrats' on something when 100 people posted same thing. It wasnt anything that would be construed as a flirt even.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 I sincerely hope you're dating others and not just waiting around for this strange person.
Author RyanM Posted March 7, 2022 Author Posted March 7, 2022 4 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: I sincerely hope you're dating others and not just waiting around for this strange person. I date sporadically. I dated other women since all this started.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 4 minutes ago, RyanM said: I date sporadically. I dated other women since all this started. Good. That's where you should be focusing. Block this loon.
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