Question about younger women ?

[chillii]

 

Got a bit of an embarrassing to ask one really, but l'm at a loss. l'm 50s although often told l look a lot younger. Personally l think l've aged a heap last few yrs though myself nonetheless.

l don;t understand younger women though and what they'd possibly want. And no l'm not rich or driving expensive cars and the sort of woman l'd usually attract wouldn't even be interest in some fake thing like that anyway. But it's very bizarre even happened again today twice actually , and so this thread.

l very often get younger chicks/women , really liking me , going out of their way to be nice or serve me in shops ,smile , stare ,flirt , hang around if l'm browsing, had it all, touch me, it's so damn weird. l mean don't they know l'm much older than them? l can only guess ages but l'd say like both today guessing 25ish, that's really common, to about 30s. Maybe they think l'm older but not my age, l don't have a clue tbh, even some of my daughters friends older than her , same later 20s say.

Don't get me wrong not complaining but sometimes they'd want me to ask them out or touch them back or whatever the situation , but l don't get it or what they could want with me.ls it common for younger women to like an older guy or what's the story. And why would they want me to ask them out l mean l've had them hint at it? Or like one just today damn near shoved the older woman serving out of the way to serve me herself, and man she was nice to butttt..

 

Edited September 29, 2021 by chillii

[Foxhall]

I suppose as an older confident bloke, they like that relaxed vibe you have and feel you are easy to talk too.

perhaps they perceive you as less of a threat than a horny 20 something with only one thing on their mind,

in a similar way to young women being quite comfortable around gay guys- they know hes not looking so they can just relax and be themselves,

some younger women may appreciate a father figure type also,

I got chatting to a 23 year old on a train a while ago- she had the most striking beautiful red hair-czech girl-,

I was just messing and saying me at around 40 im way too old for you anyway- but she was saying I think your a nice guy and I enjoyed talking to you-

so lol was good for the ego I suppose.

well im probably not the best poster to be answering on this but just happened to switch on at this time!

[Wiseman2]

They may be overly friendly if these encounters involve tips at their workplace.

[chillii]

2 hours ago, Foxhall said:

I suppose as an older confident bloke, they like that relaxed vibe you have and feel you are easy to talk too.

perhaps they perceive you as less of a threat than a horny 20 something with only one thing on their mind,

in a similar way to young women being quite comfortable around gay guys- they know hes not looking so they can just relax and be themselves,

some younger women may appreciate a father figure type also,

I got chatting to a 23 year old on a train a while ago- she had the most striking beautiful red hair-czech girl-,

I was just messing and saying me at around 40 im way too old for you anyway- but she was saying I think your a nice guy and I enjoyed talking to you-

so lol was good for the ego I suppose.

well im probably not the best poster to be answering on this but just happened to switch on at this time!

 

Nah it's not tips , we don't tip here , and not only but in all kinds of situations not just shops, often just out and about or like some of my daughters friends.

But fox maybe your onto something , even my daughter tells me l'm very chill as she puts it. Maybe it is just something like you've described. The only thing dampers that one is that some often flirt , but maybe they feel that's just safe too and just having a bit of fun.

 

 

 

[Blind-Sided]

After my divorce... it was my experience... younger women like older guys.  I was honestly worried about it, as I was late 40's, and figured it would be impossible to find someone new.  BUT... as soon as I started looking... there were girls everywhere.

I asked this same question a couple years ago, and the responses were basically... older guys are confident, and have left "Childhood" behind. In the case of my GF... she is very young.  Her exH was older than her, but after they were married, he basically turned into a kid, and she felt like she was his "Mom", or at minimum... they were roommates, and not H&W.  In talking with her about that... she really like that my house was clean, had food in the fridge, and was talking care of my kids. I was the absolute opposite of her exH. 

[Blind-Sided]

Here it is.

[chillii]

 

Yeah right , interesting. l have thought of that sort of thing and some have even said stuff , like some of my daughters friends. Edit this bit , doesn't fit.

ps , thanks for that btw , l'll have a read.

Edited September 29, 2021 by chillii

[Lisa]

Thread closed at OPs request