Did I do right to stop this?

[Savannah1990]

Hi everyone,

 

so I met this guy online (insta) and he start talking to me. He suggested a date for the net week, on a wednesday. Tuesday before we still made no real plans so I texted him; are you still in for a drink? He said; no Im sorry, im really bus with work, but we could meet this saturday? so we met that saturday. It was really nice and when I was home he already texted me that he liked me a lot and would want to see me again. I told him that I would really like that too, that I had a great time. So we had set a New date, but that morning he texted that he unfortunately couldnt make it bc he was ill. But, he also said that he really wants to reschedule, and so we did. Too bad, but that can happen. We had a little chat. Next morning I sent a text just to ask him how he felt, we chatted again. Than after my text, a week of no-contact. Our date was planned for over 2 days, and I texted him to confirm our date and he said that yes, he is still in. I said 'cool, mayb we could go to a restaurant' and than after that, no response again for a day. I noticed myself loosing interest bc he seemed that lukewarm, so I sent him a text saying that unfortunately i cannot make it, and I wish him good luck. He said 'ah thats too bad, but thanx for letting me know'. and that was that.

 

was i expecting too much? I just really missen enthusiasm from his part. What do you think?

[Wiseman2]

42 minutes ago, Savannah1990 said:

He said; no Im sorry, im really bus with work

he texted that he unfortunately couldnt make it bc he was ill.

Than after my text, a week of no-contact.

How did it come about that you met on IG? Who contacted whom?

Is he married/living with someone? Sounds like he can only get away if he can sneak out.

Delete and block him from all your social media and messaging apps.

[Savannah1990]

7 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

How did it come about that you met on IG? Who contacted whom?

Is he married/living with someone? Sounds like he can only get away if he can sneak out.

Delete and block him from all your social media and messaging apps.

you know, I had this sams suspicion that he's not single! He contacted me on IG, so I really investigated his profile, since I want to know something about the guy. I already found out who his 'ex' was. He said they were apart for 3 years. But then; the 'ex' shared his story (about an achievement) on her timeline just a few days ago, saying she is 'so proud'. So I figured: or they are still good friends, or they are together (I mean, I dont know anyone that shares posts about their ex, saying they're so proud)

Edited September 27, 2021 by Savannah1990

[glows]

I don't think he's very interested in you. I'm sorry about that. I would not give someone like this the time of day. 

I would also adjust the settings to private or friends only.