Lishy Posted October 19, 2005 Posted October 19, 2005 I have spent the last few months posting threads about a guy i met who isnt showing great interest unless we are together. My wonderful dad died last Saturday and it has made me look at things in a very different way. I should have been investing my precious spare time and thoughts with the people i KNEW loved me and cherished me instead of obsessing over a stupid man who couldnt see what he was missing out on!!!!! Treasure every minute with your family who love you unconditionally - the pain of losing them is un-bearable. Dont sit and worry over someone who is causing you hurt - If they loved they would never hurt you or dis respect you - They are one of many people out there for you! Only worry over things you can do nothing about!
slubberdegullion Posted October 19, 2005 Posted October 19, 2005 Oh, Lish, I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad. Please take good care.
JS17 Posted October 19, 2005 Posted October 19, 2005 Oh Lishy, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. *hugs:love: * for you
whichwayisup Posted October 19, 2005 Posted October 19, 2005 Sorry for your loss. I know how painful losing a parent is, my father died in '93 and there are times I still feel that pain. Look after you first. Be with people who love and support you, not some guy who is only in it for himself!
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2005 Author Posted October 19, 2005 Thank you everyone for the support you always offer so gladly!!! It was such a shock - He was not even ill - He suffered an anurism and was gone in minutes Hard to get my head around but my mum and sis and myself are sticking together like glue. I see myself as a lucky person to have a family so close! Thanks again!
l2hvn Posted October 19, 2005 Posted October 19, 2005 i am sorry for your loss. you know, seeing this post made me realize what's more impt in life. it really gives me a diff. perspective.. like you, i have been dealing w/ a guy who seems to take me for granted. i have been having trouble sleeping because i was too busy worrying about him and about us. sometimes i forget that i have great family and friends who would always be there for me no matter what happens. and they accept me for who i truly am, and not for who i should be. he, on the other hand, knows that im going thru a personal crisis, and he just seemed not to care. and he actually has been pushing me away. it's stupid because here i am, moping about it, but i shouldn't be. he's not worth it.
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