poppyfields Posted September 12, 2021 Posted September 12, 2021 (edited) 30 minutes ago, sushiandtacos said: But I broke the date about tomorrow at the end of the date when we said goodbye so I don't think that's it... ugh just wish I am not overthinking. I don't think I should reach out to him and wait for him Ok agree, that's not it then. But if I may ask, is the real reason you broke tomorrow's date because you felt something was off on today's date? The lack of physical being one of those things? Did you offer an alternative? How did he respond? Did he kiss you goodbye? Tell you he'd call you? Without more details sushi, it's seriously impossible to know. Only that this whole thing sounds off, two people NOT vibing, imo. But I'm only speculating based on what little you have shared. Anyway, gotta run, I actually have a late date, lol, hopefully others will chime in. Good luck, keep us posted. Edited September 12, 2021 by poppyfields 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted September 12, 2021 Author Posted September 12, 2021 5 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Ok agree, that's not it then. But if I may ask, is the real reason you broke tomorrow's date because you felt something was off on today's date? The lack of physical being one of those things? Did you offer an alternative? How did he respond? Did he kiss you goodbye? Tell you he'd call you? Without more details sushi, it's seriously impossible to know. Only that this whole thing sounds off, two people NOT vibing, imo. But I'm only speculating based on what little you have shared. Anyway, gotta run, I actually have a late date, lol, hopefully others will chime in. Good luck, keep us posted. Have fun on your date poppy 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted September 12, 2021 Author Posted September 12, 2021 He did kiss me good bye, that at least LOL We were totally vibing and our energies were totally aligned the first 2 dates, just a little disappointed it wasn't exactly the same today I think. That's why I broke the date bc I felt like some in-between time and reflection would be good. Also someone mentioned here that the anticipation is just as important in between the dates as well! 1
poppyfields Posted September 13, 2021 Posted September 13, 2021 Hey sushi, is there an update? Have you guys scheduled another date? Inquiring minds....
poppyfields Posted September 14, 2021 Posted September 14, 2021 23 hours ago, poppyfields said: Hey sushi, is there an update? Have you guys scheduled another date? Inquiring minds.... Second time asking cause I helped you with this on Saturday, and I am darn curious! lol TBH I am not sensing good vibes, I hope I am wrong!! Anyway..... when you get a chance.
Author sushiandtacos Posted September 14, 2021 Author Posted September 14, 2021 13 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Second time asking cause I helped you with this on Saturday, and I am darn curious! lol TBH I am not sensing good vibes, I hope I am wrong!! Anyway..... when you get a chance. lol sorry poppy! so far it's okay just texting here and there but no rescheduled date yet. trying hard to not care about the outcome and have fun with dating/going with the flow! talking to other guys so focusing on them too so I don't get fixated on just this one! how was your date? 1
poppyfields Posted September 14, 2021 Posted September 14, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, sushiandtacos said: lol sorry poppy! so far it's okay just texting here and there but no rescheduled date yet. trying hard to not care about the outcome and have fun with dating/going with the flow! talking to other guys so focusing on them too so I don't get fixated on just this one! how was your date? It was fun, thanks for asking! It was with the marine biologist and we were on his boat, he made us dinner. I am actually dating three different guys right now, I know yikes! Which is not the norm for me, I have always been a "one at a time girl," but lately, not sure why, maybe because we have all been cooped with Covid, but I seem to be spontaneously meeting all these men wherever I go! None I feel serious about right now, but I do feel an attraction, not off the charts, which is maybe what I need right now. Less intense, more lighthearted casual fun. Anyway, back to you, I like your attitude of not getting too attached to the outcome and not becoming so fixated on just one! Thanks for the update. Edited September 15, 2021 by poppyfields 1
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