Priya Posted September 8, 2021 Posted September 8, 2021 Hello Again everyone. Finally my boyfriend broke up with me. Of course who would have stayed with a partner who is quiet and putting no efforts. It's like a tag of a relationship where there are no efforts...but of course I loved him and I had the regret feeling everyday . In this 4 months the last 2 months I never called him, I just texted very dry. Of course I was aware but I just kept on thinking to do this or that but I never implemented. My boyfriend tried to make me socialize I said no even at that time. He was helping me but I never wanted to try to work on this relationship and now he broke up with me and I am really so guilty it feels like I would never forgive myself.Some people will tell me that, it's for your better but I know this relationship could have worked more he knows the value of this relationship and also I know his intentions and how he is. It's clearly all my fault. You guys just look at the fact I never tried. I kept on thinking I never tried to make this relationship work on. What should I do now. I am seriously so broken.
d0nnivain Posted September 8, 2021 Posted September 8, 2021 I'm sorry you are hurting but in the end this is for the best. You can't see that right now & it certainly doesn't heal the pain you are feeling. Go ahead & grieve for what you think you lost. Tears are cathartic. Today is Wednesday. . .wallow for the rest of the week & through the weekend if you like but then pull yourself together. Reflect on what happened. Think about how you might come out of your shell more in the future with a local boy your own age. Don't be so quick to get into an on-line anything next time.
Author Priya Posted September 8, 2021 Author Posted September 8, 2021 23 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: I'm sorry you are hurting but in the end this is for the best. You can't see that right now & it certainly doesn't heal the pain you are feeling. Go ahead & grieve for what you think you lost. Tears are cathartic. Today is Wednesday. . .wallow for the rest of the week & through the weekend if you like but then pull yourself together. Reflect on what happened. Think about how you might come out of your shell more in the future with a local boy your own age. Don't be so quick to get into an on-line anything next time. I know it's the best for me. I am sometimes just laughing and being normal and in the next min just crying over our memories. I miss him I crave to talk with him but again I fail to express myself. We are friends now and he said you will be the closest person though you wanna delete me from everywhere. I know time would help me. But how could I forgive myself? I didn't put any efforts.. And this ended because of me he waited 2 months
ExpatInItaly Posted September 9, 2021 Posted September 9, 2021 5 hours ago, Priya said: But how could I forgive myself? I didn't put any efforts.. And this ended because of me he waited 2 months By understanding that this was going to end anyway. The logisitics were working against you and it wasn't meant to last. Follow @d0nnivain's advice for moving past this. You will be okay again soon. 1
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