Truevette Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 (edited) When a guy says "you say you want me and love me then show me" what does that mean? Does this mean have sex [ ] ?? Edited August 31, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator crass 1
Stevnx3 Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 11 minutes ago, Truevette said: When a guy says "you say you want me and love me then show me" what does that mean? Does this mean have sex/screw him?? Yes, I'd say sex. But need some context here! 1
Miss Spider Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 (edited) Gonna get a little crazy here, but maybe ask him? Edited August 31, 2021 by Cookiesandough 2 1
basil67 Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 (edited) What it means will depend on what was said leading up to his comment. Imagining a conversation such as: Boyfriend: I feel like you don't care if you're spending time with me or not Truevette: How can you say that! I love you and want to be with you Boyfriend: ....then show me! Edited August 31, 2021 by basil67
chillii Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 (edited) Not good sorry op . Anyone that truly cares or heaven forbid loves you , don't use you against you. Yeah, unfortunately it does look like he wants whatever he can get but eh, if your leaving something out yeah, let us know. Edited August 31, 2021 by chillii
Blind-Sided Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 6 hours ago, Cookiesandough said: Gonna get a little crazy here, but maybe ask him? That just crazy !!!!! LOL. OP... seriously... just ask him. Also... of you are tell someone you "Love" them... I would expect that you would be in a physical relationship already. (no?)
d0nnivain Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Blind-Sided said: Also... of you are tell someone you "Love" them... I would expect that you would be in a physical relationship already. (no?) Depends on how old you are. The OP sounds very young. When I was a teen girl if some guy said something stupid to me like "if you loved me you'd have sex with me" my response would always be, "if you loved me you wouldn't be pressuring me to do things I'm not ready for." So while this guy's statement could be a request for sex, he could also simply be saying that your actions don't match your words, @Truevette He may be concerned that while you say you love him you don't show it through caring gestures. Edited August 31, 2021 by d0nnivain 1
Blind-Sided Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 18 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: Depends on how old you are. The OP sounds very young. When I was a teen girl if some guy said something stupid to me like "if you loved me you'd have sex with me" my response would always be, "if you loved me you wouldn't be pressuring me to do things I'm not ready for." OK... I wasn't considering this could be HS age kids.
Wiseman2 Posted August 31, 2021 Posted August 31, 2021 9 hours ago, Truevette said: When a guy says "you say you want me and love me then show me" what does that mean? Does this mean have sex? Generally yes it means affection/sex. However this is a quite manipulative and controlling statement. Is this the same man?:
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