Matthew124 Posted August 23, 2021 Posted August 23, 2021 Hello. I have been seeing this boy (went on two dates, texted for bout 2-3 weeks before this) and I do like him. But I feel these weird doubts that don't make sense to me, like whether I truly like him. But when I am with him I completely forget about them and and it's very natural. These doubts are annoying me and I am wondering if its just anxeity causing them. Like if I could see him now in a heartbeat I would. Part of me is overthinking everything as well and its really annoying me. Thanks
d0nnivain Posted August 23, 2021 Posted August 23, 2021 Do you generally over think things? I sense some of that going on here. If things are good & flow naturally when you are together let that be your guide. Best wishes. I hope this works out for you. 2
Author Matthew124 Posted August 23, 2021 Author Posted August 23, 2021 3 hours ago, d0nnivain said: Do you generally over think things? I sense some of that going on here. If things are good & flow naturally when you are together let that be your guide. Best wishes. I hope this works out for you. Yeah I do tend to overthink things a lot in all aspects. And thank you.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 19 hours ago, Matthew124 said: But I feel these weird doubts What are these doubts? 1
Daisydooks Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 I think we need more info on the doubts youre having. Depending on your response here, it could change the advice given. If this is an anxiety issue, we can help and advise you as needed. If the "doubts" you're having are glaring red flags, we can also help point those out, too, and let you know your doubts are well founded.
Gaeta Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 On 8/23/2021 at 7:29 AM, Matthew124 said: like whether I truly like him. You've been on 2 dates so you can only like him as much as someone you saw twice. If you continue dating and having this great time together your feelings will slowly develop. You can't like him right now the way you'd like him after 6 months.
Author Matthew124 Posted August 31, 2021 Author Posted August 31, 2021 On 8/24/2021 at 8:01 AM, Daisydooks said: I think we need more info on the doubts youre having. Depending on your response here, it could change the advice given. If this is an anxiety issue, we can help and advise you as needed. If the "doubts" you're having are glaring red flags, we can also help point those out, too, and let you know your doubts are well founded. I genuinely can't think of a doubt currently because things just flow. Maybe only sexual chemistry but we haven't really went there much if you know too. But I guess that may come In all honesty I'm not that well experienced in relation to dating and relationships
Miss Spider Posted September 1, 2021 Posted September 1, 2021 Is this your first bf? When I’ve really liked someone , there was no question. It was more questions when someone who was kind of Meh to me. You can still keep dating him to see if that changes. It does sometimes for some people
Author Matthew124 Posted September 2, 2021 Author Posted September 2, 2021 (edited) 11 hours ago, Cookiesandough said: Is this your first bf? When I’ve really liked someone , there was no question. It was more questions when someone who was kind of Meh to me. You can still keep dating him to see if that changes. It does sometimes for some people Wouldn't say bf, but I think about him a lot and want to see him I and don't get those meh feelings. It's just really annoying more than anything. Edited September 2, 2021 by Matthew124
spiderowl Posted September 3, 2021 Posted September 3, 2021 If there is nothing in particular that is bothering you about him and you enjoy his company, why not continue to see him until it all becomes clearer?
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