smackie9 Posted August 23, 2021 Posted August 23, 2021 (edited) If the guy is spending more of his time talking about what he thinks you want to hear, and focuses on buttering you up, then is he really a nice guy getting to know you? No....if you slow things down, would that change who he is? No. He's playing you up, plain and simple...men like him can get a sense of a vulnerable or desperate woman pretty quick. Those are the types they seek out. If you give them any info on your lack of relationship experience you are a sitting duck. You pull back all they do is re-strategize. Edited August 23, 2021 by smackie9
Wiseman2 Posted September 21, 2021 Posted September 21, 2021 On 8/22/2021 at 4:40 AM, Daisy-oliviaWentcher said: I also said I just feel like in the past I've rushed relationships only for them to reveal their true colours and I've learnt my true lesson that a rushed relationship isn't always the healthiest. It seems to be going well. Just pace yourself and have confidence. Try not to drag the past around with you and allow it to sabotage your future. If you feel chronically sad, ruminating about the past, withdrawn,etc. consider getting an evaluation from a physician for depression and anxiety and overall physical health. Get a referral to a qualified therapist for ongoing support.
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