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The only thing that puts me back together some days, is hope.

 

knowing that his rebound could fail, and he will eventually come back...

but there are no guarantees...

 

i wish i didnt have hope so i could just get threw this, and i am

 

any one going through the same experience...you know a long term relationship, than ended and the ex jumped in to another relationship a week later, still being bitter towards you

 

( with them living together)...

 

advice would help, i have had tonsss of help...its just so hard to move on...

i would love to talk to some people who feel the same.

 

 

thank you~

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knowing that his rebound could fail, and he will eventually come back...

but there are no guarantees...

 

Not only are there no guarantees but that scenario is HIGHLY unlikely..

 

He is with someone else..

 

You need to start trying to move on and heal...

 

By putting yourself in the postion of 2nd choice you are making a poor judgment call and the sacrifice is your self esteem and self respect

 

By the way.. I have been in your position before and have done exactly what you are doing.. I know how hard it is to move on..

 

that is why I think you need to to.. He isn't going to breakup with her and come running back to you in a short time..

 

If he comes back it will be a very long time from now

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ah, hearing the truth hurts, but i do have to think realisticly... its not really that i want him coming back...

 

i meen i want him to regret this, i think as i start to heal i will be more mature about it.

 

It just hurts so bad not to have hope....but it will help me move on quicker

 

i have been having restricted calls on my cell phone, i hate that because it probaly isnt even him and its really really making me have hope...

 

 

he just couldent be calling with hes with some one else...that is very unlikely

 

oh but it hurts too much to think of this...the more i except it though...the faster i will heal

 

 

thank you though

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When you say that scenerio is highly unlikey?

 

can you explain that please...

 

 

thanks:)

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