JRabbit Posted August 13, 2021 Posted August 13, 2021 15 minutes ago, SumGuy said: If flashy isn't expensive and over priced to you then what is it? Shiny? Simply body styling that impresses someone? Sounds even more subjective. Now if you are saying to many it is flashy sure can agree with that, but in his world probably not...and rather tame as well. If you are from the world he seems to imply how can you then say it is flashy? Can think of several towns not far away where a 2021 Mustang GT would be just a ho hum car on the street, sporty but no Bentley, not catching anyone's eye as out of the ordinary impressive. Heck if this girl is making $300 a pop, all tax free I assume, she could get herself a Mustang GT pretty easy as well You're just arguing semantics with me though, like you said its subjective. I never got the impression this guy is THAT rich. He just thinks his money will make girls like him. Flashy to me is - turns heads when someone drives by, or people say - hey look at that nice car - which doesnt take much to impress a 20 year old woman unless shes Paris Hilton or something "If you are from the world he seems to imply" ...... not that it matters because people of all social statuses can have an opinion on what is flashy. There are plenty of rich folk who aren't materialistic.
Shining One Posted August 14, 2021 Posted August 14, 2021 6 hours ago, JRabbit said: A brand new Mustang is going to turn heads....looks pretty flashy to me? Perhaps it's an area or age thing, but I don't see anything special about it. I've seen them around, but I don't give them a second glance.
Caauug Posted August 14, 2021 Posted August 14, 2021 1 hour ago, S2B said: please tell me you used condoms. If she really is a professional, she will insist on them.
spiderowl Posted August 15, 2021 Posted August 15, 2021 (edited) I'm really sorry, Solosilk. She should have told you before you got involved that she was planning to do this. The fact that she told you outright and as if it shouldn't be a problem seems to indicate that she has little idea of what the 'norm' is here. It also sounds like she is into money and that money comes first, so to speak. You haven't done anything wrong. Maybe she was a bit young for you - 2 years' age difference can seem like a lot when you are 20. She is fairly immature and maybe thought you would look at this as a bit of an adventure and a good way to make some dosh. You are at the stage of life of wanting to build a relationship with a woman while she is still experimenting and working out who she is. I cannot think of anything that is going to make you feel any better. I suppose the good thing is that she told you what she was up to. She could have told you before having sex with you, that was not fair. You will need to seriously consider getting tested for STIs. It all shows that how little you knew about her. Speaking from the experience of being much older than you, I can say that it really takes a few months to a year to really get to know what someone is about. Most people cannot keep up the pretence that long. You sound a lovely guy. I am sure there will be a genuine girl out there for you. Maybe keep the car as that is more likely to appeal to a woman looking for a long-term relationship. Bachelor things are great if you want to be a bachelor. Edited August 15, 2021 by spiderowl 1
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