d0nnivain Posted August 23, 2021 Posted August 23, 2021 6 minutes ago, Starrs said: i really liked him why would he block me? He blocked you because you act like a crazy person. You behave in a clingy unstable manner. 1 1
Author Starrs Posted August 23, 2021 Author Posted August 23, 2021 2 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: He blocked you because you act like a crazy person. You behave in a clingy unstable manner. he slammed the door on my face….And I forced myself in to look for my stuff. Then he followed me around and started to throw things at me saying “LEAVE” I slapped him twice and he pushed me to his bed. And we ended up doing it, so he’s worse than i am.
stillafool Posted August 23, 2021 Posted August 23, 2021 13 minutes ago, Starrs said: he slammed the door on my face….And I forced myself in to look for my stuff. Then he followed me around and started to throw things at me saying “LEAVE” I slapped him twice and he pushed me to his bed. And we ended up doing it, so he’s worse than i am. He probably blocked you because he doesn't want to end up in trouble dealing with you. He's probably now sorry the sex happened.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 23, 2021 Posted August 23, 2021 2 hours ago, Starrs said: i really liked him why would he block me? Because he wants nothing more to do with you. Leave it alone now. 1
Miss Spider Posted August 23, 2021 Posted August 23, 2021 (edited) 10 hours ago, Starrs said: he slammed the door on my face….And I forced myself in to look for my stuff. Then he followed me around and started to throw things at me saying “LEAVE” I slapped him twice and he pushed me to his bed. And we ended up doing it, so he’s worse than i am. You’re both p bad… MFEO Edited August 23, 2021 by Cookiesandough
Author Starrs Posted August 24, 2021 Author Posted August 24, 2021 9 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: Because he wants nothing more to do with you. Leave it alone now. well it turns out, he never “blocked me” apparently he had no service. now i am more confused on what’s going on. this is the whole conversation. me:would u like to continue talking? i was mad and had no understanding of anything at the moment. him: I’m glad you’re feeling better, i think we can still talk but I don’t want to promise anything in the future me: what do you mean, “i don’t want to promise anything in the future” him: There’s just a lot we need to iron out if we want this to work for the long term. You asked for more time and I understand what you were saying so I will not ignore you, so we need to make things better and not fight. So after some more time if nothing changes then… me:things will get better, thanks for giving me more time as i am going through a hard time right now. i agree if no change we should part ways. him: I’m glad we have come to an understanding and I look forward to the future i said ok. and he hasn’t said a word back i don’t know what’s going on anymore. what should i do? because tbh i do like him.
Daisydooks Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 On 8/18/2021 at 12:18 PM, Starrs said: yes but they aren’t attractive in my eyes tbh. Being single isnt the worst. Promise. Lol 1
Author Starrs Posted August 24, 2021 Author Posted August 24, 2021 9 minutes ago, Daisydooks said: Being single isnt the worst. Promise. Lol yeah well this guy is very attractive and sex with him is bomb. he likes my body and he said i have a nice puss. 1
Daisydooks Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 3 minutes ago, Starrs said: yeah well this guy is very attractive and sex with him is bomb. he likes my body and he said i have a nice puss. I said what I said. You can do this poorly by your damn self. Lol. This guys just not that into you. 1
stillafool Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 4 minutes ago, Starrs said: he likes my body and he said i have a nice puss. How romantic. 5
Alpacalia Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 1 hour ago, Starrs said: yeah well this guy is very attractive and sex with him is bomb. he likes my body and he said i have a nice puss. Please tell me he was talking about your cat . 3
ExpatInItaly Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 5 hours ago, Starrs said: i need some advice Anger management and counseling. 4
Amanda92 Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 So you hit him and he wanted to rape you, but actually you agreed to have sex after he slammed doors at your face? You need a therapy right now. 2
Alpacalia Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 58 minutes ago, Amanda92 said: So you hit him and he wanted to rape you, but actually you agreed to have sex after he slammed doors at your face? You need a therapy right now. I did not read that part. But I agree. OP this is not a healthy situation. Please refrain from reaching out to him any further and take care of yourself. 2
princessaurora Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 First, you found him so unattractive you tried to push him to your friend. Now you find him so hot you're going to tolerate him throwing things at you, calling the police, and pushing you on the bed for sex? Are you that desperate for a partner you'll tolerate physical/sexual abuse because you're practically there already. This is such a clusterfudge I can barely keep up. 2
d0nnivain Posted August 24, 2021 Posted August 24, 2021 5 hours ago, Amanda92 said: So you hit him and he wanted to rape you, I don't know that he wanted to rape her. She slapped him. He was threatening to call the police to get her to leave. She wrote that he pushed her on to the bed. If he pushed her away from him in self defense to stop her continued assault, isn't it better than he pushed her toward a soft landing, like the bed, rather than throwing her on the floor? I'm not sure how they went from a knock down drag out fight to sex, other than emotions running hot & hormones boiling over. You see this all the time in movies. It always looked more like assault to me Think about all those scenes where some man grabs an hysterical woman, slaps, her shakes her & then ends up kissing her. Everybody raves about the passion but nobody calls that rape. Given how unstable the OP has presented herself through this thread, lets not accuse this guy of a crime without more. 1
Author Starrs Posted August 25, 2021 Author Posted August 25, 2021 9 hours ago, Alpaca said: I did not read that part. But I agree. OP this is not a healthy situation. Please refrain from reaching out to him any further and take care of yourself. well we both agreed to try it again he says he likes me and wants to see if it works out.
Author Starrs Posted August 25, 2021 Author Posted August 25, 2021 10 hours ago, Amanda92 said: So you hit him and he wanted to rape you, but actually you agreed to have sex after he slammed doors at your face? You need a therapy right now. i know that but we were both angry, but truthfully we’re very into each other. he said he wants me to come over next weekend to spend all weekend together.
Alpacalia Posted August 25, 2021 Posted August 25, 2021 25 minutes ago, Starrs said: well we both agreed to try it again he says he likes me and wants to see if it works out. Well, both of you have problems with lashing out. 1
BaileyB Posted August 25, 2021 Posted August 25, 2021 (edited) On 8/23/2021 at 7:38 AM, Starrs said: he said sex made him happy so that’s why i did it, Well then… you shouldn’t find yourself single for long. Edited August 25, 2021 by BaileyB
Daisydooks Posted August 25, 2021 Posted August 25, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Starrs said: well we both agreed to try it again he says he likes me and wants to see if it works out. Can you two do that without about abusing one another though? 1 hour ago, Starrs said: i know that but we were both angry, but truthfully we’re very into each other. he said he wants me to come over next weekend to spend all weekend together. I sincerely hope it doesnt end up with one of you very hurt or arrested. He wants to bang you. You want to bang him. But with emotions involved you two are straight toxic and havent even gone on 4 outtings Edited August 25, 2021 by Daisydooks 2
ExpatInItaly Posted August 25, 2021 Posted August 25, 2021 6 hours ago, Starrs said: well we both agreed to try it again he says he likes me and wants to see if it works out. I can already tell you now: no way in fresh heck is this going to work out. Get help for your abusive tendencies.
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