BJSTING2006 Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 Heres a few things She always changes her voice toen to match mine i noticed also shes so outspokena nd not embarrased of anything but when im around or makin gher laugh her face always goes red when she laughs, shy? hmm whatelese, well i caught her looking at me once,a nd she immediatley looked down, wahts the pro analysis of that, is she shy i dont like her back maybe last thing is i noticed when im with her shes always adapting to my mood, if i greet her with a 'happy hi' shes comfortable for the rest of the library period and laughign etc.. if its the other way round she doesnt seem too talkitive or happy either, altho thats what she is like usually can i conclude she likes me? thanks
witabix Posted October 19, 2005 Posted October 19, 2005 Sounds to me like mirroring. The lookdown means she is contacting her feelings, this may be a good sign if she is smiling when she does it. Mirroring is something we do unconsciously when we meet someone we like, its an instinct. Sounds all positive to me dude.
Author BJSTING2006 Posted October 19, 2005 Author Posted October 19, 2005 aight htanks anymore input ppl?
CarmenIbanez Posted October 19, 2005 Posted October 19, 2005 Here are some of the subtle cues I have either used, or seen other women use. 1) Touching. Reaching out and putting a hand on his hand or arm when we're talking. Or putting a hand on his back as you walk around or behind him. Also falling into this category is what I call the "Monica" (think friends), which is when someone "hits" a guy when they are talking. Either on the arm, or in the stomach. 2) Eye Contact. Eye contact is the number one cue. When someone meets your gaze, and will lock eyes with you and not look away. Most people are uncomfortable with direct and lasting eye contact, so this is a pretty good clue. Also, when you are in a group setting, and everyone is participating in a conversation, but she continuously directs her attention at you specifically when she talks to the group. 3) Excuses. As in excuse to run into you, talk to you, email you, etc. 4) Details. A person who is interested in you remembers little details about things you say and do. The use of an expression that you use. The purchase of a book you mentioned. An interest in a hobby you participate in, etc. 5) Body Language. A woman who is interested in you will lean in to talk to you. She will touch her neck/chest/face. Lick lips/teeth a lot.
Author BJSTING2006 Posted October 20, 2005 Author Posted October 20, 2005 one more thing, do girl susually ignore a person they got crushes on , on purpose. if theyre shy of revelaing thie rfeelings. i can tell she likes me defiantley, but in group discussions she always tries to ignore me in a obvoius way, cause she sshy, but i still talk to her like the most out of everyone, its wierd i tell ya
Author BJSTING2006 Posted October 20, 2005 Author Posted October 20, 2005 lol how im too scared,this girls different, its hard to get her, she doesnt rub shoulders with anyone in the past 3 years altho shes like the hottest in school, shes not the girl ud see in the hallways hugging every guy, flirting eetc.. but she has some speicaly connecton to me i can sense, maybe casue im from her same country, and can speak her language. its so obvous, from me AND her, im sure shes feeling the same way, but teh final touches arent being made, too much shyness involved.
witabix Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 Take the bull by the horns, grasp the nettle etc etc. Faint heart never won fair maid! Girls probably find your shyness cute! What country are from originally? Do boys usually approach girls there, is it allowed? Never mind!! Go for it!!
Jayhawks Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 If you don't find a way to tell her you'll lose her. Your shyness will only be good for so long and then she will get tired because you don't have enough confidence to let it happen. If you want her around you better find a way to come out of your shell.
elijahBailey Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 can i conclude she likes me? sorry, the answer is a definitive no.
Author BJSTING2006 Posted October 21, 2005 Author Posted October 21, 2005 k now some bad news give us ur reasoning
elijahBailey Posted October 22, 2005 Posted October 22, 2005 gut feeling my man. I just think you're reading too much into all that. I didn't hear her taking any initiative on the whole situation. If she finally does, I'll change my point of view. I've only ever taken body language dynamics as a reference at most, because there are just too many possibilities to consider for it to be a serious science. At best it improves the odds from a 50/50 to a 60/40. All the rest comes from intuition, which you can hone the more you practise. However, having said that, if I were you, I'd still give it a shot. I could be wrong. And I do hope I'm wrong. good luck.
stjärna Posted October 22, 2005 Posted October 22, 2005 one more thing, do girl susually ignore a person they got crushes on , on purpose. we all have our own techniques, but yes, we do the ignoring thing, but usually only if we're not certain how the guy feels about us . . .
Author BJSTING2006 Posted October 23, 2005 Author Posted October 23, 2005 aight thanks for all ur input ppl tomororw will be my big day then
Author BJSTING2006 Posted October 24, 2005 Author Posted October 24, 2005 oh i did mention when i talk to her she blushes and looks away every now and then, is that hate, likness, or shyness
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