Afraid MM will start bothering me again

[Luna66star]

Pandemic coming to a close now and we are all returning to office.

Working from home gave me relief from bumping into him.  Background:. We work on same office and he wouldn't stop chasing me. I was lonely and flattered.  He didn't mention he was married for a long time.  I found out later and told him to go away.  He did for a short time but got me jealous by flirting with other co workers.

I don't want to go through this ever again!  Last week he was in on the day I was also.  I was coming out of ladies room when I saw him talking to two co workers by my desk!  He turned to give me a big grin.  Uggh.

I feel really anxious that he's already hanging around my desk, pretending to be chatting with others.  I obviously can say who he can & cannot talk to in my area of the office.

Any suggestions?  

 

 

[NYAG]

3 hours ago, Luna66star said:

Pandemic coming to a close now and we are all returning to office.

Working from home gave me relief from bumping into him.  Background:. We work on same office and he wouldn't stop chasing me. I was lonely and flattered.  He didn't mention he was married for a long time.  I found out later and told him to go away.  He did for a short time but got me jealous by flirting with other co workers.

I don't want to go through this ever again!  Last week he was in on the day I was also.  I was coming out of ladies room when I saw him talking to two co workers by my desk!  He turned to give me a big grin.  Uggh.

I feel really anxious that he's already hanging around my desk, pretending to be chatting with others.  I obviously can say who he can & cannot talk to in my area of the office.

Any suggestions?  

 

 

Just make it very very clearly that you are work colleagues only. If need be, make up a story that you're seeing someone so you are busy elsewhere.

[BaileyB]

Tell him if he doesn’t respect your boundaries and keep his distance you will report him to HR for sexual harassment. He will keep his distance.