balletomane Posted August 12, 2021 Posted August 12, 2021 On 8/6/2021 at 5:24 AM, Interstellar said: it’s really more about the interest level here. girls have high interest level in so and so person the way they would to somebody famous so of course their excuse of not going out with him is out the window. i use celebrities as example because it’s more interesting/entertaining to describe interest level in that context. who am i supposed to use? my friend joey boy the mechanic from the shell station? The vast majority of women don't have the opportunity to date celebrities, so how do you know they'd be ready to rush into a relationship with them? You don't. You're just assuming they would. Personally I wouldn't be so sure. A mechanic is a more viable prospect for a woman who isn't a celebrity herself, so that actually would be a more valid point of comparison, which I think is Poppy's point.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 12, 2021 Posted August 12, 2021 On 8/5/2021 at 10:26 AM, reozeno said: The question is, am i wasting my time here? Probably, yes. Why? I bring you this again: On 8/5/2021 at 10:26 AM, reozeno said: she has past scars that makes her to feel numb towards this love stuff
d0nnivain Posted August 12, 2021 Posted August 12, 2021 6 hours ago, reozeno said: I have decided to move on from her after some thoughts. If you have not even met yet, I think you are making a mistake. Yes, being friend zoned is no fun but here I do not think this girl is projecting lack of interest. She is using language imprecisely. She is not telling you that she wants to be platonic She is trying to convey that she wants to get to know you before she jumps into something sexual. She is trying to weed out players who only want sex. Her desire to avoid being used for sex only does also apply to famous people. The idea that if someone is rich or famous which will make girls drop their panties faster probably has a ring of truth but there are still people with standards who believe in building a relationship slowly by taking their time to get to know somebody. As for your car analogy. you like the Tesla but recognize that you may feel differently after a test drive. All she's saying is don't come to the dealership with a pocket full of cash. Overall for you to move on without meeting is you potentially missing a wonderful opportunity. Would it really be that inconvenient to grab a quick cup of cofee to see what's she's all about in person? You really shouldn't judge a profile or a few messages.
Interstellar Posted August 13, 2021 Posted August 13, 2021 (edited) 16 hours ago, balletomane said: The vast majority of women don't have the opportunity to date celebrities, so how do you know they'd be ready to rush into a relationship with them? You don't. You're just assuming they would. Personally I wouldn't be so sure. A mechanic is a more viable prospect for a woman who isn't a celebrity herself, so that actually would be a more valid point of comparison, which I think is Poppy's point. a mechanic? please tell that to all your sisters i would love to see that become the norm instead of rockstars, athletes, doctors, millionaires, ceos..etc... if the mechanic is the best and well known mechanic on the block then i’d argue he has postured position as if he’s onstage like a celebrity. elizabeth taylor was once married to a carpenter, julia roberts is still happily married to the cameraman. Edited August 13, 2021 by Interstellar
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