Kingj Posted July 29, 2021 Posted July 29, 2021 I dated this girl 6 years ago when I was 23 I’m 29 years old now dated for couple months after breakup yes I’ve texted her couple times (wanted to string along didn’t tell her that) she called me a stalker after that I’ve left her alone now 6 years later I’m thinking of emailing her since it’s been so long I email her asking how she’s doing she responded telling me to leave her alone and get a life called me a stalker (don’t know why after all this time she refer to me has one still) I wrote her a long email telling her I know she don’t mean that cause I know she’s a nice kind girl and non confrontational now I’m not so sure she’s nice im guessing I dodge a bullet
d0nnivain Posted July 29, 2021 Posted July 29, 2021 You didn't dodge a bullet. She did. After 6 years when she already previously called you a stalker it was really uncool of you to reach out again. Delete this woman's contact info off every device you own & leave her alone or you may find yourself on the wrong end of legal action. 4
ExpatInItaly Posted July 29, 2021 Posted July 29, 2021 2 hours ago, Kingj said: I wrote her a long email telling her I know she don’t mean that cause I know she’s a nice kind girl and non confrontational Holy condescending and manipulative, Batman. Leave her bee. She clearly does not like you and does not want to hear form you. 5
Alpacalia Posted July 29, 2021 Posted July 29, 2021 (edited) And this is why you change your phone number. Then maybe you'll get the hint. 3 hours ago, Kingj said: I dated this girl 6 years ago when I was 23 I’m 29 years old now dated for couple months after breakup yes I’ve texted her couple times (wanted to string along didn’t tell her that) she called me a stalker after that I’ve left her alone Edited July 29, 2021 by Alpaca
Author Kingj Posted July 29, 2021 Author Posted July 29, 2021 11 minutes ago, Alpaca said: And this is why you change your phone number. Then maybe you'll get the hint. She did change her number 6 years ago I emailed her cause I don’t have her number 1
HiCrunchy Posted July 29, 2021 Posted July 29, 2021 Did you breakup with her or did she breakup with you? 1
Author Kingj Posted July 29, 2021 Author Posted July 29, 2021 9 minutes ago, HiCrunchy said: Did you breakup with her or did she breakup with you? I broke up with her cause I notice she distance from me after I broke up with I contact her 2 days later saying sorry for her pain that I can’t believe I would hurt her then she not reply then I said I coming her house she call me stalker leave her alone I said I know how get her attention I know where she live and she not type sleep around i went no contact couple months I be texting her random for her Valentine’s Day and other time one time she broke up with me and she was silent on the phone and ask her whAt she’s doing that u think easy break up someone
Wiseman2 Posted July 29, 2021 Posted July 29, 2021 4 hours ago, Kingj said: she called me a stalker after that I’ve left her alone I wouldn't waste time obsessing about her. Get back in the dating game and don't go backwards. 1
Taramere Posted July 30, 2021 Posted July 30, 2021 22 hours ago, Kingj said: now 6 years later I’m thinking of emailing her since it’s been so long I email her asking how she’s doing she responded telling me to leave her alone and get a life called me a stalker (don’t know why after all this time she refer to me has one still) I wrote her a long email telling her I know she don’t mean that cause I know she’s a nice kind girl and non confrontational So she laid down a very clear "do not contact me again" boundary with you, you tried to manipulate her by telling her that she's a nice, non confrontational girl who didn't really mean to lay down that boundary - and now you're asking strangers on a message board whether you should pester her again. No, no and no. She's let you know loud and clear. Respect her wishes, and stop trying to dream up reasons and excuses for contacting her again. 3 1
glows Posted August 1, 2021 Posted August 1, 2021 On 7/29/2021 at 10:06 AM, Kingj said: I dated this girl 6 years ago when I was 23 I’m 29 years old now dated for couple months after breakup yes I’ve texted her couple times (wanted to string along didn’t tell her that) she called me a stalker after that I’ve left her alone now 6 years later I’m thinking of emailing her since it’s been so long I email her asking how she’s doing she responded telling me to leave her alone and get a life called me a stalker (don’t know why after all this time she refer to me has one still) I wrote her a long email telling her I know she don’t mean that cause I know she’s a nice kind girl and non confrontational now I’m not so sure she’s nice im guessing I dodge a bullet You’re annoyed because you didn’t get the reaction you wanted. It doesn’t mean that she isn’t kind. She just doesn’t want to hear from you. Was there some reason you wanted to contact her again after all these years? Just got through a break up? Keep moving forwards. It’s tempting to check in with people you’ve dated in the past but usually not worth it.
Donnas Posted August 1, 2021 Posted August 1, 2021 She told you first time already to leave her alone. Now 6 years later she telling you again. What dont you understand? She dont like you. She dont want any kind of contact. The door is closed. Leave her alone before she report you for stalking. Move on and work on learning accepting when someone tell you no. No means no! No doesnt mean keep trying or try again after 6 years. It means go away,im not into you.
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