BJP Posted July 24, 2021 Posted July 24, 2021 I am at my wits end with online dating, 4 different times I have been cat fished, and it is really challenging me to want to trust anyone any more. Even the dating websites that are deemed as "safe" are not. The level of ghosting that takes place and the fact nobody would like to meet in a safe public setting in person with drinks or dinner on me I find kind of unsettling. I am sure someone would take me up on that offer. What was interesting is I do fallow adult actresses on their instagram and been finding it a life saver from being further scammed. Anytime I get an attractive girl texting me their photo I go straight to the adult websites to find them and sure enough I am 4 for 4 people giving me a fake profile and its been frustrating as hell. The issue Ive had with going to bars and other social gatherings is I am always out with people already in a relationship.
smackie9 Posted July 24, 2021 Posted July 24, 2021 Going out with people who are in a relaitonship shouldn't make any difference. The people you are suppose to chance meet are the ones that are going to be single. It doesn't have to be bars, it can be on a patio, on a walk, physical activity, the beach, etc. Your friends should know single people too, like a coworker or the friend they have yoga class with etc. Plus there are groups you can join that are just for singles. Look for stuff that's going on in your area, like a festival. Lots of singles out there that are in the same boat as you. 1
Miss Spider Posted July 24, 2021 Posted July 24, 2021 Be reasonable with it. Are the girls you’re matching and meeting online way hotter than you could ever normally pull? You’re probably be catfished or recruited as an Instagram follower 3
HotRevolver93 Posted July 24, 2021 Posted July 24, 2021 (edited) The only matches I’ve gotten on OLD were women trying to plug their social media and bots lol. It’s a scam if you’re not hot. There’s this guy in my family who goes on dates every week with women online, it’s insane. He’s 6’3 and looks like a model though. I feel like my role in online dating is to be the filler. Like when you go to a restaurant and there’s stuff on the menu no one orders just to fill up the page Edited July 24, 2021 by HotRevolver93
Weezy1973 Posted July 27, 2021 Posted July 27, 2021 On 7/24/2021 at 11:09 AM, Cookiesandough said: Be reasonable with it. Are the girls you’re matching and meeting online way hotter than you could ever normally pull? You’re probably be catfished or recruited as an Instagram follower This is pretty much definitely the case. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. 1
chillii Posted July 27, 2021 Posted July 27, 2021 Yeah your saying "if" your not hot op. So in other words your expecting to be able to meet women much hotter than yourself , well ahh, nah , that ain't gonna work. Online is full of average or below women , they make up 90% of it last time l was on one and some of them very nice too . So lf your not hot either as you call it well ahhh, then this is what you should be looking for and maybe you'll start meeting women. 1
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