Weezy1973 Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 Just now, poppyfields said: No course not silly. I listed FIVE, as asked. Top 5 was what was asked.
basil67 Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 6 minutes ago, Happy Lemming said: I had to look this up... Is this referring to Bauhaus construction/architecture?? Rectangular forms/buildings?? Can you educate me a bit about this?? Bauhaus the band. 1
poppyfields Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 2 minutes ago, Weezy1973 said: Top 5 was what was asked. See my edited post, they may be my top five!!! 2
Weezy1973 Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 (edited) 6 minutes ago, poppyfields said: See my edited post, they may be my top five!!! One of the characteristics of people with anti-social personality disorder (I.e psychopaths) is not conforming to societal norms. They’ll also not put up with your crap. Edited July 20, 2021 by Weezy1973 1
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 Exactly. The question was ‘top five’. Didn’t say the only five.
poppyfields Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 Just now, Weezy1973 said: One of the characteristics of people with anti-social personality disorder (I.e psychopaths) is not conforming to societal norms. They’ll also not put up with your crap. That must mean I am a psychopath then, because I prefer to not conform to societal norms either. At least as far as relationships and marriage are concerned.... which is mostly what I meant. A free and independent thinker, not a robot.
Alpacalia Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 No cheaters (past or present). No drugs. Mutual respect. Accountability. Trust. 2
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 (edited) Xxx Edited July 20, 2021 by Cookiesandough 1 1
Weezy1973 Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 1 minute ago, Cookiesandough said: This list leaves room for the severely mentally ill. I knew an honest, empathetic, trustworthy girl that before being heavily medicated would that would reliably and dependably touch a hot flat iron because she thought he family would die if she didn’t. ( OCD ) Yup, and OCD is very treatable. Not a dealbreaker for me. 1
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 So I’m the only one that doesn’t mind ash tray mouth? (Smokers are hot?) More for me, then …
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Weezy1973 said: Yup, and OCD is very treatable. Not a dealbreaker for me. It is in a lot of cases, but that’s just one example. There are a lot of cases of crazy that aren’t . But if you’re cool with it as long as they’re reliable and dependable about it, that’s cool. Because they usually are. They also don’t have the best hygiene either but I guess that isn’t an issue for you anyway so We all have our bar Edited July 20, 2021 by Cookiesandough
poppyfields Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 Just now, Cookiesandough said: So I’m the only one that doesn’t mind ash tray mouth? (Smokers are hot?) More for me, then … I don't mind a smoker cookies, as long as he maintains good oral hygiene. If I fell in love with him, I may encourage him to quit though, my mom died from lung cancer after years of smoking.... may she RIP. 1
Happy Lemming Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 15 minutes ago, basil67 said: Bauhaus the band. OK... now I understand. A quick google search pointed me in the direction of plain rectangular Architecture and building design. I didn't think that is what @Cookiesandough meant. 1
poppyfields Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 (edited) I am fairly certain I have OCD, at least on some level..... food for example. None of my boyfriends ever took issue with it. Edited July 20, 2021 by poppyfields 1
Weezy1973 Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 Just now, poppyfields said: I am fairly certain I have OCD, at least on some level..... lol We all do…talk to my wife about how I need to “line up” all of my son’s toy cars at the night… 1 1
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 Is this top five or only five we can have? Because if so I want to change ‘atheist/agnostic’ to ‘kinky/busts it wide open’ 1
Weezy1973 Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 5 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: It is in a lot of cases, but that’s just one example. There are a lot of cases of crazy that aren’t . But if you’re cool with it as long as they’re reliable and dependable about it, that’s cool. Because they usually are. They also don’t have the best hygiene either but I guess that isn’t an issue for you anyway so We all have our bar Reliability overall. If their mental illness interferes with their reliability (I.e. I can’t count on them to do what they said they would do) then it would be a dealbreaker. Hygiene isn’t a dealbreaker in that when my wife comes back sweaty from exercising I’m not the least bit turned off. Or first thing in the morning before she’s brushed her teeth for that matter… 2
Ami1uwant Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 25 minutes ago, poppyfields said: No course not silly. I listed FIVE, as asked. I said there were more. But in truth, I MIGHT forgive a liar or cheater IF he was truly remorseful and learned from it and vowed to NEVER do again. I might also date an ex-con, again assuming he was remorseful, paid his dues, learned from the experience and grew, evolved as a result of having experienced. my rule on cheaters..if I catch them I can’t forgive. They tell me first I can. cheating is not the problem. The problem always is something else 1
Happy Lemming Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 3 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: So I’m the only one that doesn’t mind ash tray mouth? (Smokers are hot?) More for me, then … Just over a decade ago, I dated a wonderful beautiful redhead that was a two pack a day smoker. She and I got along great and dated for quite a while. I didn't mind the fact that she smoked, one bit. Sadly, she developed stage 4 lung cancer and is no longer with us. 2
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Happy Lemming said: OK... now I understand. A quick google search pointed me in the direction of plain rectangular Architecture and building design. I didn't think that is what @Cookiesandough meant. Sorry yea they’re a band the elder goths tend to like. I agree with you though people that get real on that Wicca scare me as much as Christians sometimes Edited July 20, 2021 by Cookiesandough
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 (edited) 9 minutes ago, poppyfields said: I don't mind a smoker cookies, as long as he maintains good oral hygiene. If I fell in love with him, I may encourage him to quit though, my mom died from lung cancer after years of smoking.... may she RIP. I’m sorry for your loss Edited July 20, 2021 by Cookiesandough 1
poppyfields Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 1 minute ago, Weezy1973 said: We all do…talk to my wife about how I need to “line up” all of my son’s toy cars at the night… LOL, like I said with me it's food, I am very ritualistic (obsessive) about food. I will eat the same thing for weeks, then get bored with it and will never eat it again. Ever! Like for awhile, all I ate for breakfast was smoked salmon with cream cheese on sourdough toast. It's SUPER expensive and I spent a fortune on it. After about a month, maybe longer, the thought of it made me want to puke! lol Now I have around 4 packages of nova lox smoked salmon in my freezer that I will probably never eat! 3
Weezy1973 Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 1 minute ago, Ami1uwant said: my rule on cheaters..if I catch them I can’t forgive. They tell me first I can. cheating is not the problem. The problem always is something else Like being dishonest? Selfish? Not caring about others? Or not caring about the consequences of their actions?
Miss Spider Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Weezy1973 said: We all do…talk to my wife about how I need to “line up” all of my son’s toy cars at the night… Your list also doesn’t exclude those heavily into MLM and women without functional vaginas.( but that’s okay, I’m not judging you as you did me) Edited July 20, 2021 by Cookiesandough
poppyfields Posted July 20, 2021 Posted July 20, 2021 2 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: I’m sorry for your loss Awww, thank you cookies, I appreciate it. 1
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