Ope88 Posted July 19, 2021 Posted July 19, 2021 My girl broke up with me a year ago after 10years we dated. I just started no contact 2 months ago. She only reached out once. Is it possible for her to reach out again
basil67 Posted July 19, 2021 Posted July 19, 2021 You've asked for No Contact. If she reaches out again, it shows that she doesn't respect your boundary. Conversely, are you hoping she will contact you? If so, why did you put No Contact in place?
Wiseman2 Posted July 19, 2021 Posted July 19, 2021 4 hours ago, Ope88 said: . I just started no contact 2 months ago. Is it possible for her to reach out again What was the breakup about? Why were you chitchatting after the break-up? It's time to move forward. It's a year and after that long together you both know it didn't work out.
Author Ope88 Posted July 19, 2021 Author Posted July 19, 2021 She just resent me and built up religion differences thing. Me being Muslim and she Christian.. She made it more complicated even though it wasn't that bad. We really had history she shouldn't have tossed away like nothing. She is done with me... I am moving on steady
Author Ope88 Posted July 19, 2021 Author Posted July 19, 2021 5 hours ago, basil67 said: You've asked for No Contact. If she reaches out again, it shows that she doesn't respect your boundary. Conversely, are you hoping she will contact you? If so, why did you put No Contact in place? Well i didn't want it but she did. About a month ago when she unblocked me during my no contact, she texted me saying i can't be forgotten. I didn't reply cause its meaningless., Pheew!! It's crazy. I wish i don't know people in my life that end up hurting me..
Wiseman2 Posted July 19, 2021 Posted July 19, 2021 31 minutes ago, Ope88 said: She just resent me and built up religion differences thing. Me being Muslim and she Christian.. Ok. Live and learn. Date women who are compatible with you and who have the same cultural and religious beliefs. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted July 19, 2021 Posted July 19, 2021 30 minutes ago, Ope88 said: We really had history she shouldn't have tossed away like nothing. It isn't our call to decide what someone else should or shouldn't do with their lives, OP. It hurts because it is not what you wanted, but my guess is that she did what she feels is best for her. You haven't provided much information but I imagine that she didn't randomly decide to "toss away" a 10-year-relationship without really having thought it through first. 32 minutes ago, Ope88 said: She just resent me Why does she resent you? 32 minutes ago, Ope88 said: built up religion differences thing. Me being Muslim and she Christian That can be a very signficant hurdle, if you're both fairly close to your respective faiths. Did she want to find a Christian partner to build a life with, or..? 1
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