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On 7/14/2021 at 2:01 PM, Love said:

Hi Guys,

I hv been with my boyfriend for 1.5 year. We really get along very well and love each other very much. But, he didn’t ask me to move in together or discuss abt future plan at all. When I asked him abt it recently, he told me that he thought of marrying me thousand of times a day since 7-8months ago. 
However, whenever he thought abt it, he started to feel stress and headache. Both of us are 30+ and having a stable financial. 
For me, I m not rushing for marriage. But, I want to have future plan with him and commitment like we will get married in next 1-2 years time. But, he can’t bring himself to make plan with me. He said he doesn’t  know why he is like that. He feels guilty abt it too. 

When I tried to break up with him and cut away all the contact, he said his world falls apart without me being with him. He asked me to be with him yet he still can’t bring himself to talk abt future plan with me. 
Moreover, I never met his family or friends before. We also never post any couple photos or post on social media. So, our relationship is quite private. Sometimes, I feel like he is pocketing me. 

I really don’t know what I should do. Seriously need your kind advice on this.

Thanks in advance. 

 

Either he is not over his ex or he is with you while someone else comes along (either an ex or another woman he has a crush or is flirting with) . He might be flirting through Facebook so if they see pics with you they would know he is unavailable. 

Run, you are wasting your time. 

 

Edited by torn_heart
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