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Would you be ok with your boyfriend moving out?


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Had a ladies night last night and this came up as a topic of discussion as one of the ladies I'd going through this. I was surprised at the answers that were given and thought id get a few more opinions.  

How would you feel if your boyfriend or the person you're in a relationship with moved in with you and then decided they wanted to move on their own while still in the relationship? Also if they left for about 10 days would you let them come back? 

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I would think he was unhappy and that is why he left.

1 minute ago, Yungstagurl said:

How would you feel if your boyfriend or the person you're in a relationship with moved in with you and then decided they wanted to move on their own while still in the relationship? Also if they left for about 10 days would you let them come back? 

 

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If my girlfriend did this, the relationship would be over.

Should be building a future together, getting stronger and stronger, falling more and more in love and happier together.

What you said is the opposite of this, so no point carrying on.

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I think my answer would depend on a few factors. For one, what timeline are we looking at here? After how long did the hypothetical couple move in together? Secondly, why did they move in together? Thirdly, why did the guy decide to move out?

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Ya there could be many different scenarios. But I guess if they just up and left, and then changed their mind after 10 days....there's trouble in paradise. I would say no I wouldn't accept him back. If there was issues, they could be discussed...but stepping out like that means they want to move on. I say they can have at it.

So what did the girlies say about it?

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I lived with a BF for almost 10 years & moved out to buy my own house 1.5 hours away but closer to my new job.  We stayed together for another 1.5 years.  Our break up had nothing to do with my address. 

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