mortensorchid Posted July 16, 2021 Posted July 16, 2021 On 7/13/2021 at 12:38 PM, Elswyth said: Correct. Part of change is changing how you allow people to treat you. Family I can understand to an extent, because you don't choose your family. But if your "close friends" were treating you poorly when you were 10 lbs heavier, maybe you want to reexamine your people-picker. The fact that they started treating you well again after you lost the weight, doesn't change the fact that you have some pretty terrible "close friends". Looking back, I realized that my family was saying that because they wanted the best for me. And friends on their parts as well. But for someone to say that over 10 lbs? Not sure how they would even notice it was so slight but that can and does happen as well.
Noproblem Posted July 19, 2021 Posted July 19, 2021 (edited) Do you prefer to be single and sick with Diabetes, blood pressure, tooth issues, depression, GI problem, fatigue, heard problems, and people discrimination and be dependant on pills and doctors to keep you functional? or would you prefer to be single, healthy, and looking good and younger than your age? Guys are not the answer to our happiness, they were never the answer!; you know once you lose your health, you'll realize how precious it was. Once you become fat and realize you can't wear nice stuff anymore, how you look older right away, how people discriminate against fat people, you will realize how it was a mistake to let yourself go just because you didn't get a man! Don't let yourself go, because healthy active life is more important than being in a relationship! Edited July 19, 2021 by Noproblem 1
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