scobro Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 I have been physically separated from my wife for about a month.She ended things quite suddenly and has moved on(dating someone already).Since I was the one who was left the adjustment has been very hard on me emotionally and physically(weight loss).The problem is my wife wants to continue a relationship with my daughter (10 years old)from a previous relationship her step daughter when we were together who I get every other weekend and she also wants to see our dogs from time to time.Now because of my work schedule I work Saturdays every other month which my wife wants to take advantage of and spend those days with my daughter and see our dogs which came with me in the separation.This past weekend my ex comes to pick up my daughter and to me I was crushed again I couldn't get her out of my mind and of course she drops her off on her way to a party she was going to and of course she was looking hotter than hell all done up and it literally put me through hell emotionally.I am trying to move on but get pushed back every time i see her and I am a mess again. So I have decided to absolutely cut all ties with her it's the only way I can get on with my life but she doesn't want to let go she e- mails me and always has some sort of reason to contact me. I have talked to her about it but she doesn't seem to get it.How can I just cut all ties and stop her from contacting me?Any advice would be great!
JohnJohn Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 So I have decided to absolutely cut all ties with her it's the only way I can get on with my life but she doesn't want to let go she e- mails me and always has some sort of reason to contact me. I have talked to her about it but she doesn't seem to get it.How can I just cut all ties and stop her from contacting me?Any advice would be great! Simple. If you have decided to cut all ties with her, do not respond to her e-mails or phone calls. You've talked to her. If she doesn't get it, that's her issue not yours. Change your e-mail if that's feasible. If not, delete her e-mails or block her if your e-mail has that capability. Screen your calls. Caller ID is a wonderful thing. You can't stop her from contacting you, but you can chose not to answer those contacts. I know it's not easy, but you can do it.
Author scobro Posted October 18, 2005 Author Posted October 18, 2005 Thanks bro, I guess i know that but I feel better when i hear it from someone else.
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