Viky61 Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 Hi there, So my boyfriend of almost a year has been ignoring me for the past month now. The last time we hang out together was great, and nothing out of the ordinary has happened in our relationship to make him suddenly disappear like this. I sent him a text a few weeks ago asking how he's doing, to which he replied that he's busy with work and he's moving into a new place...which I already knew about. He then asked how my day was and I replied, but he never responded to that either. Fast-forward to now, I send him another message asking how he's been since he's been quiet on me for a month, and he never replied. The thing is, I know he's ignoring me specifically because I see that he's still very active on all his social media accounts. We're in a committed relationship, and he's always been nothing but kind to me, so it's frustrating to be treated like this. All I want is clear communication and some answers, but i'm unsure of where to go from here. If he's not responding to me now, I don't want to be pushy and spam him with messages.
FMW Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 3 hours ago, Viky61 said: he's been quiet on me for a month, and he never replied. The thing is, I know he's ignoring me We're in a committed relationship It sounds like he doesn't agree that you're in a relationship at all. It's really crappy, but I don't think you should consider him your boyfriend anymore. 1
Wiseman2 Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 3 hours ago, Viky61 said: . I sent him a text a few weeks ago asking how he's doing, to which he replied that he's busy with work and he's moving into a new place.. When was the last time you saw each other in person? How well do you know him?
stillafool Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 It does seem like he's trying to do a slow fade. Maybe he's seeing someone else. Just call him up and ask what's going on. 1
Blind-Sided Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 5 hours ago, Viky61 said: ...... he's been quiet on me for a month, and he never replied. ..... A month?? If it's been that long... there isn't a relationship here. Don't bother contacting him... it's just time to move on. Sorry.
d0nnivain Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 Silently ignoring you for a month after you have been seeing each other for a year = the worst, meanest form of cowardly ghosting. He dumped you but didn't even have the courtesy to tell you. If he was interested in preserving the relationship you would have been asked to help with the move & you would have stayed the night in the new place long before now. Consider yourself single & move on.
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