VaFemmeFatale Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 Quick recap. Was in a LTR with A. Recently broke up. Started seeing B. A has the financial stability I need in my life, loves me unconditionally, would do anything for me....but I am not satisfied with that relationship. A wants to work things out, get back together, make it happen. B. Aye aye aye, B and I have a LOT in common (even the whole just getting out of a long term relationship part). I would like to see B exclusively, to be honest, but I dont know if that is what B wants.....I get mixed signals. When I proposed a FWB type situation to B, she implied that it never works out like that "but ok". I saw A last night. Should I choose to pursue that (which in a lot of ways, considering my current life situation, would most likely be BEST for me in every way but matters of the heart....) I know it would happen. I am supposed to see B tonight. I dont know if I should, because if I do, I feel like I need to lay it out, explain the situation.....FWB is not what I really want....but sometimes I feel like its better than nothing? Im so confused. And its been a long time since Ive been in this situation. I dont know how to approach B without freaking her out, and I dont know how to read her signals. Help? Anyone?
slubberdegullion Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 Call me a cad if you wish, but what's wrong with seeing both of them? It's not like you're married.
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