Author DeanWinchester45 Posted June 28, 2021 Author Posted June 28, 2021 1 minute ago, ExpatInItaly said: What were you doing? Just being emotional like depressed or sad
ExpatInItaly Posted June 28, 2021 Posted June 28, 2021 1 minute ago, DeanWinchester45 said: Just being emotional like depressed or sad No, I meant how were you expressing this to her? Sad messages? Crying?
Author DeanWinchester45 Posted June 28, 2021 Author Posted June 28, 2021 1 minute ago, stillafool said: Not really? She didn't accept your proposal or the ring. She gave you a 2 year delay and probably was expecting the relationship to fizzle out before that date or she would have jumped to get that ring and you. So you wanted to marry a girl that you didn't even feel comfortable with enough to tell her that you lost some buddies overseas and was feeling a bit emotional about it? She told me before she didn’t want the ring till after school, she knew she was going to get it. We even made plans to stay together after her current 6 month internship. she knew about it, but it amplified when I get that dreaded Lord of the Rings lol
Author DeanWinchester45 Posted June 28, 2021 Author Posted June 28, 2021 Just now, ExpatInItaly said: No, I meant how were you expressing this to her? Sad messages? Crying? Crying, and not wanting to discuss it
stillafool Posted June 28, 2021 Posted June 28, 2021 1 minute ago, DeanWinchester45 said: She told me before she didn’t want the ring till after school, This was her backing out gently. (the 2 year delay) 1 minute ago, DeanWinchester45 said: Crying, and not wanting to discuss it Why couldn't you tell her you lost your buddies? 1
ExpatInItaly Posted June 28, 2021 Posted June 28, 2021 5 minutes ago, DeanWinchester45 said: Crying, and not wanting to discuss it Maybe this is why she was worried that you had some big confession to make and why she asked if you were cheating or had gotten someone pregnant? If my guy were upset and emotional and crying and not telling me why, I would also be worried he had done something bad and his guilt was eating him alive. Was this happening while she was away and you were calling her constantly? 1
Author DeanWinchester45 Posted June 28, 2021 Author Posted June 28, 2021 10 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: Maybe this is why she was worried that you had some big confession to make and why she asked if you were cheating or had gotten someone pregnant? If my guy were upset and emotional and crying and not telling me why, I would also be worried he had done something bad and his guilt was eating him alive. Was this happening while she was away and you were calling her constantly? This happened late May. Yea that’s what she wanthinking
ExpatInItaly Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 13 hours ago, DeanWinchester45 said: This happened late May. Yea that’s what she wanthinking Then it's best to let her go. She realized this isn't working for her, and wants a different future for herself. 2
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