Asher247 Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 We are young teenagers and my long distance gf told me that she's not mature enough for a relationship but she still wants to be in a relationship with me how can she be a bit more mature?
ExpatInItaly Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 2 hours ago, Asher247 said: how can she be a bit more mature With time. There's really no other way. How old are you both?
ExpatInItaly Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 1 minute ago, Asher247 said: We are 14 And have you ever met her in person? She is right that she is very young to be in a relationship (you both are), and too young for a long-distance relationship.
Wiseman2 Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 2 hours ago, Asher247 said: my long distance gf told me that she's not mature enough for a relationship. Her parents may not want get her talking to internet strangers.
Author Asher247 Posted June 25, 2021 Author Posted June 25, 2021 Ngl she hasn't told her parents she just feels that way
Author Asher247 Posted June 25, 2021 Author Posted June 25, 2021 And uh no we haven't met in person sadly I live in the UK while she lives in the USA
ExpatInItaly Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 12 minutes ago, Asher247 said: And uh no we haven't met in person sadly I live in the UK while she lives in the USA Asher, it is better not to get involved with people who live on the other side of the world. it's just not a realistic prospect and will keep you from meeting local girls you can actually date. This one is too far away and too young for this to go anywhere.
Wiseman2 Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 1 hour ago, Asher247 said: And uh no we haven't met in person sadly I live in the UK while she lives in the USA Unfortunately, this could be a troll, catfish, scammer or pedophile (many pose as underage girls). For all you you, could be a hairy 50 year old dude. Shut it down asap. Date local girls you know from school, summer camp, your neighborhood, sports, clubs, hobbies, etc. Never give out personal info to random internet strangers. 1
Fletch Lives Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: Unfortunately, this could be a troll, catfish, scammer or pedophile (many pose as underage girls). For all you you, could be a hairy 50 year old dude. Shut it down asap. Date local girls you know from school, summer camp, your neighborhood, sports, clubs, hobbies, etc. Never give out personal info to random internet strangers. Yup. You may never really know if she's legit, a catfish, or a scammer until you meet. Talk to local girls you can actually meet. Better yet, meet them in school. 1
Author Asher247 Posted June 25, 2021 Author Posted June 25, 2021 I know she's legit as I asked for a a picture of the inside of her nostrils to check if she's not a catfish and she sent it I've also heard her voice
ShyViolet Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 If you've never met in person and don't even live in the same country, this is not a relationship. You are internet pen pals. Stop wasting your time thinking that she is your girlfriend.... she's not. Learn how to interact with real people in person and have real relationships. 2
d0nnivain Posted June 26, 2021 Posted June 26, 2021 It's lovely that you found somebody with whom you click. However given your young ages & the distance which means you haven't met, back off the labels (BF/GF) & don't promise each other exclusivity. Talk, play games, have fun but don't rush. When you are older, make a plan to meet. Then you can talk about something more serious. 1
Wiseman2 Posted June 26, 2021 Posted June 26, 2021 18 hours ago, Asher247 said: I asked for a a picture of the inside of her nostrils to check if she's not a catfish and she sent it I've also heard her voice Ok, but nonetheless, she doesn't want to communicate this much. Was it after you asked her this strange request that she decided she doesn't want to communicate this much?
BaileyB Posted June 26, 2021 Posted June 26, 2021 At 14, you both need to mature before you are ready for a serious relationship. Seriously Asher, go out and love your life. Play sports, spend time with your friends, study - find someone local to date. Long distance relationships are not worth your time.
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