do I look like an idiot?

[Janeeee]

Hi! So I've never had a real relationship before particularly because for most of my life since I was a child I have been harassed by men/boys. 

I saw this really cute guy on TikTok and I decided I might as well add him on snap. He's TikTok famous (300k+) so I didn't think he would respond to my message. 

But he actually did and I asked him about what shows he likes etc. 

I sent him a snap to make sure he knew o am a real person lol and he responded with a random video of his clothes or something. We went back and forth for a few minutes and when I woke up he added me back as a friend. He has not opened my message in over 15 hours, so I sent him a snap asking him what he was doing. 

He hasn't opened that either but he did watch my story. 

Do I look like a weirdo/idiot? I'm not obsessed or stalker-ish by any means- I didn't even know who he was until I added him. 

I'm feeling kind of stressed about seeming like annoying or something- did I do something wrong? 

 

 

[Indigo Night]

2 hours ago, Janeeee said:

Hi! So I've never had a real relationship before particularly because for most of my life since I was a child I have been harassed by men/boys. 

I saw this really cute guy on TikTok and I decided I might as well add him on snap. He's TikTok famous (300k+) so I didn't think he would respond to my message. 

But he actually did and I asked him about what shows he likes etc. 

I sent him a snap to make sure he knew o am a real person lol and he responded with a random video of his clothes or something. We went back and forth for a few minutes and when I woke up he added me back as a friend. He has not opened my message in over 15 hours, so I sent him a snap asking him what he was doing. 

He hasn't opened that either but he did watch my story. 

Do I look like a weirdo/idiot? I'm not obsessed or stalker-ish by any means- I didn't even know who he was until I added him. 

I'm feeling kind of stressed about seeming like annoying or something- did I do something wrong? 

 

 

You're obsessing over why someone with 300k followers hasn't responded in a timely fashion? Chances are good that he doesn't respond to most of his followers. 

If you want someone that will reply, try finding someone who doesn't have 300k followers, and is TikTok famous. Find a normal, run off the mill, person who isn't a social media celebrity or influencer.

Idiot? No. Bored and lonely? Probably.

[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, Janeeee said:

 I was a child I have been harassed by men/boys. 

He's TikTok famous.

Are you interested in dating or a relationship?

It's fine to be a fan, but what is it you are looking for?

If it's dating, you can start talking to real life boys. If you are over 18, you can get on dating apps.

 

[Jack Kama]

Don't think that way bro. Be confident.

[stillafool]

8 hours ago, Janeeee said:

Do I look like a weirdo/idiot? I'm not obsessed or stalker-ish by any means- I didn't even know who he was until I added him. 

I'm feeling kind of stressed about seeming like annoying or something- did I do something wrong? 

No not an idiot but if you send anymore requests or messages he may think you're a stalker.  I'd let it go at this point and see if he replies anymore.

[Yosemite]

You're not being weird or annoying. Just send him a few more Snaps or messages...maybe wait a day or two before you send them. If he answers he answers, if he doesn't, he doesn't... either way you haven't done anything wrong.