HopelessNick Posted June 22, 2021 Posted June 22, 2021 I like this girl. My male friend showed me a group chat she's in from last month. He's only in it cause it's a uni group. A girl said "He loves you" and another girl said "100%%%%% so much" My crush said "I can't blame him " A girl said "It's so obivious" and another said "K-I-S-S-I-N-G" My crush replied with (nail polish emoji) Are they making fun of me?
Author HopelessNick Posted June 22, 2021 Author Posted June 22, 2021 CLEARING THINGS UP: I like this girl. I created a group chat including her and a few others. My male friend showed me a different group chat she's in from last month. He's only in it cause it's a uni group. Doesn't really talk to the girls My crush messaged the uni group chat and said "Why did he create the group chat?" A girl said "He loves you" and another girl said "100%%%%% so much" My crush said "I can't blame him " A girl said "It's so obivious" and another said "K-I-S-S-I-N-G" My crush replied with (nail polish emoji) Are they making fun of me?
Wiseman2 Posted June 22, 2021 Posted June 22, 2021 It may be less confusing and complicated if you asked girls you like out and dated in person, no? 4
SumGuy Posted June 22, 2021 Posted June 22, 2021 Have no idea what the (nail polish emoji) means, but from my college age daughters perhaps it means thinking, who knows. If she knows you are really into her and is not shutting you down that seems positive. Heck this inside info could really help. Can go up to her and say "I don't know if you noticed but I am really in to you." If she says yes in some over the top way you can play if off like "Is it that obvious" things like that. But above all ask just ask her out. There are many ways to go about above all keep be chill if she does not reciprocate, you are simply letting her know, giving both of you an opportunity for something potentially. Don't be needy or apologetic but also don't be cocky or try to run some game. Just be genuine and centered, be you and try not to be nervous. I am also a big one on having a sense of humor about these things, not taking it too seriously as the other person may be tense too. It may help you not be nervous if you can be chill about her saying know...and good with her answer no matter what it is so you know and do not pine away for unrequited love. She may ask why you like her...and if you know what she likes about herself (makes her proud of herself) that is the best answer. Don't ever be embarrassed you like someone, it takes a strong heart to put yourself out there and ask...it is a good character trait that many find attractive. Any person who would mock you for this is not a person you want in your life anyway...so if that happens consider it a bullet dodged.
Wiseman2 Posted June 22, 2021 Posted June 22, 2021 5 hours ago, HopelessNick said: My crush replied with (nail polish emoji) I would reply with similar head-scratching content such as: Let her figure it out. 1
elaine567 Posted June 22, 2021 Posted June 22, 2021 4 hours ago, SumGuy said: Have no idea what the (nail polish emoji) means, Nonchalance or indifference... "whatever?" in other words... 1 1
SumGuy Posted June 23, 2021 Posted June 23, 2021 (edited) 19 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: I would reply with similar head-scratching content such as: Let her figure it out. He's not on that thread/chat group. That was her responding to her friends when they said he is totally in love with her. OP has an inside man Also...I get what you are saying, lets just talking go get some pizza then take my dog to the park to play catch. I'm in, so is my dog. Edited June 23, 2021 by SumGuy 2 1
lana-banana Posted June 23, 2021 Posted June 23, 2021 Yeah, the nail polish emoji in this context means "duh, I'm gorgeous, obviously" or "mm-hmm, whatever". At the very least it is not an affirmation of interest in you. I wouldn't be embarrassed necessarily but it's not exactly what you're looking for. 1
smackie9 Posted June 23, 2021 Posted June 23, 2021 (edited) More like face palm, not listening. “I'm not bothered” or “Haters gonna hate.” I think everyone is just teasing you/egging you on, and why not? It's for fun. Edited June 23, 2021 by smackie9
Author HopelessNick Posted June 24, 2021 Author Posted June 24, 2021 (edited) 21 hours ago, SumGuy said: OP has an inside man I haven't spoken to her in a couple of weeks, but today when she was a having a conversation with someone, I turned to face them, she smiled and started talking to me too. Later today, she called my name 3 times in a minute. She said "Nick, what are you doing?" I said I was charging my phone. 20 seconds later "Nick, what are you doing now? I said waiting for my phone to charge. 20 seconds late, "Nick! What's up!" I ignored her and her friend (the girl who said I loved her) said "stop annoying him". What do you make of that? Edited June 24, 2021 by HopelessNick
Wiseman2 Posted June 24, 2021 Posted June 24, 2021 3 hours ago, HopelessNick said: She said "Nick, what are you doing?" I said I was charging my phone. 20 seconds later "Nick, what are you doing now? I said waiting for my phone to charge. 20 seconds late, "Nick! What's up!" I ignored her and her friend (the girl who said I loved her) said "stop annoying him". Well if you think they are acting like annoying timewasters, get out of the chatsite and do something more useful with your time an answering to nonsense like this.
LynneVicious Posted June 24, 2021 Posted June 24, 2021 Op, Moët of the time it’s better to not over analyze and scrutinize every thing said and done when interested in someone. It just causes expectations, confusion and can drive you crazy. I wouldn’t look into text snippets and trying to decipher emojis. Its really pointless. If you like this girl, ask her for a date. If she says no then she’s not interested in you and you have your answer. 4
Wiseman2 Posted June 24, 2021 Posted June 24, 2021 On 6/23/2021 at 12:50 PM, SumGuy said: I get what you are saying, lets just talking go get some pizza then take my dog to the park to play catch. I'm in, so is my dog. Nick, unless she sends you ", my place 7pm", just ignore their shenanigans. 1
cleverusername Posted June 24, 2021 Posted June 24, 2021 You- " I would love to take you out" Her- "Yes" or Her: "No" Problem solved 4
Yosemite Posted June 24, 2021 Posted June 24, 2021 5 hours ago, HopelessNick said: Later today, she called my name 3 times in a minute. She said "Nick, what are you doing?" I said I was charging my phone. 20 seconds later "Nick, what are you doing now? I said waiting for my phone to charge. 20 seconds late, "Nick! What's up!" I ignored her She was trying to talk to you, bring you into the conversation, maybe trade a few jokes and have a fun little conversation. I have no idea why you would ignore your crush when she's speaking to you. 3
Author HopelessNick Posted June 25, 2021 Author Posted June 25, 2021 13 hours ago, HopelessNick said: I haven't spoken to her in a couple of weeks, but today when she was a having a conversation with someone, I turned to face them, she smiled and started talking to me too. Later today, she called my name 3 times in a minute. She said "Nick, what are you doing?" I said I was charging my phone. 20 seconds later "Nick, what are you doing now? I said waiting for my phone to charge. 20 seconds late, "Nick! What's up!" I ignored her and her friend (the girl who said I loved her) said "stop annoying him". What do you make of that? This was all in person
SumGuy Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 (edited) 8 hours ago, Yosemite said: She was trying to talk to you, bring you into the conversation, maybe trade a few jokes and have a fun little conversation. I have no idea why you would ignore your crush when she's speaking to you. This. Unless she is cruel and a mean girl, she is giving you an opening...I'd even call it flirting, step one, especially as you both seem young. I very much doubt you have blown it though. I get the impression they think your "crush" is cute, and you as well. Again unless she is cruel and a mean girl. Edited June 25, 2021 by SumGuy
Trail Blazer Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 12 hours ago, cleverusername said: You- " I would love to take you out" Her- "Yes" or Her: "No" Problem solved This 100 percent! @HopelessNick stop procrastinating and just ask her out already! 1
elaine567 Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 3 hours ago, SumGuy said: unless she is cruel and a mean girl. That thought is why he is essentially paralysed. He doesn't know if she is interested or just playing games. It is one of the problems with being the jokey/prank playing guy, which is his new strategy. It gets him closer to women but these women then are also worried about showing real interest, in case he turns round and makes a fool of them. It leads to an impasse.
SumGuy Posted June 25, 2021 Posted June 25, 2021 8 hours ago, elaine567 said: That thought is why he is essentially paralysed. He doesn't know if she is interested or just playing games. It is one of the problems with being the jokey/prank playing guy, which is his new strategy. It gets him closer to women but these women then are also worried about showing real interest, in case he turns round and makes a fool of them. It leads to an impasse. True, though generally you know if someone is cruel or mean girl from the social circle. Here it sounds like she is part of a circle he knows, his friend is on her friends chat group etc. Here I think her friends are letting her know he does like her, but can see that she may wonder as well. Oh the games and insecurity of youth. Agree though with others, just ask her out. This to me is a win-win situation. If she says yes, great. If she says no nicely, well now you know and are in no worse position than you are now. If she is mean about it, it makes her look bad and now you know you dodged bullet.
Author HopelessNick Posted June 27, 2021 Author Posted June 27, 2021 A couple of times she talked really loudly to the girls and say something like "I wonder if Nick thinks we talk so much s***. (Something along those lines.) Sometimes she'll talk about guys on tinder to the girls really loudly. One time she said she was going on a date loudly as well. I don't know if she wants me to be able to hear.
CaliforniaGirl Posted June 27, 2021 Posted June 27, 2021 3 hours ago, HopelessNick said: A couple of times she talked really loudly to the girls and say something like "I wonder if Nick thinks we talk so much s***. (Something along those lines.) Sometimes she'll talk about guys on tinder to the girls really loudly. One time she said she was going on a date loudly as well. I don't know if she wants me to be able to hear. She's pretty juvenile. Is she very young? Just ask her out. Then you'll know. GL
Author HopelessNick Posted June 29, 2021 Author Posted June 29, 2021 Yesterday, one of the girls messaged the girls chat with a Tiktok video I made a few months ago and said to my crush "you're his type" (The video was the trend where you tell people your preferences about a variety of topics.) She replied with "" That night, she followed me on Tiktok.
CaliforniaGirl Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 13 minutes ago, HopelessNick said: Yesterday, one of the girls messaged the girls chat with a Tiktok video I made a few months ago and said to my crush "you're his type" (The video was the trend where you tell people your preferences about a variety of topics.) She replied with "" That night, she followed me on Tiktok. Just ask her out.
Wiseman2 Posted June 29, 2021 Posted June 29, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, HopelessNick said: She replied with "" That night, she followed me on Tiktok. Seems like you two have something. Ask her out. Even if it's with emojis Or a tiktok video Edited June 29, 2021 by Wiseman2
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