INFLAMESS2 Posted June 21, 2021 Posted June 21, 2021 Ive been seeing her for about 2 months now, we have not had sex yet(coz we decided to take it slow she wants something more permanent atleast thats what she said)but we have had physical encounters.. we have openly expressed our feelings towards each other and started getting more comfortable in each others pressence,she has invited me over to her place multiple times,we have gone out with each others friends multiple times,she even told me that she talked to her mother about me next step was to meet family. things were going quite amazing to be honest until she send me this yesterday: I am a bit confused,it feels like everything is going to quick i want to take it a step back i dont feel i can commit right now i want to know better first??The funny thing is later that day she asked me if i wanna go out with her and friends so now i am also confused what am i not getting? we are both 31 btw she has been single for 5 years but she has being going on one night stands etc
stillafool Posted June 21, 2021 Posted June 21, 2021 Back away. She's probably saying something she doesn't mean. Start now dating others and do not go out with her and her friends because you aren't looking to get friendzoned, are you? Make her miss you.
Wiseman2 Posted June 21, 2021 Posted June 21, 2021 10 minutes ago, INFLAMESS2 said: l she send me this yesterday: I am a bit confused,it feels like everything is going to quick i want to take it a step back i dont feel i can commit right now i want to know better first? she has been single for 5 years but she has being going on one night stands etc Sorry this happened. Weird for sure. Just say fine, and back off. 2 mos. is long enough to see red flags and incompatibilities like this. It's not worth jumping through these kind if everchanging hoops. She seems too messed up to date. Run.
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