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What are your thoughts on giving/receiving hints in dating?


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1 hour ago, cleverusername said:

Dude, just talk to everyone like normal people and see if you hit it off. Stop overanalyzing it. There is no step by step formula to attraction or short cuts, it either happens or it doesn't. Stop looking to the end goal when there is no foundation.

I was just at my  apartment buildings social. I was just being friendly and talking to every man and woman I could, with the intention of JUST being friendly. A woman gave me her number unprompted, another tried flirting with me, and talking to another one turned into 2 hours of drinks together 1-on-1 and her inviting me over for dinner sometime. I never intended for any of these things to happen. I never had a goal I was trying to reach. It just naturally occurred. Be natural. Stop forcing it. Again, women are very intuitive, they can pick up on things you can't. They are sensing you goal to get laid and aren't feeling secure or safe. The number one thing women think about is safety, I guarantee it. 

Take the pressure off and not only will you feel better with yourself, women will feel better around you. 

You’re acting like I don’t talk to people unless I want to date them lmao. Again, I’ve talked to hundreds of women in my life and it just never “happened” for me like it has for you. I’m not doubting your stories but my life never reflected this

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48 minutes ago, HotRevolver93 said:

You’re acting like I don’t talk to people unless I want to date them lmao. Again, I’ve talked to hundreds of women in my life and it just never “happened” for me like it has for you. I’m not doubting your stories but my life never reflected this

Are you looking for sex or a relationship?

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On 6/24/2021 at 10:52 PM, cleverusername said:

Are you looking for sex or a relationship?

I stopped “actively looking” but when I was Whatever comes. 

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